It's our 63rd month being together. I never get tired of remembering from the very first day.. The day I told myself "by hook or by crook he will be the one for me". The day you snob and just nod on me made me felt more challenged. hahaha. I never regrets those times I felt like giving up but gladly I didn't because of you being so childish, to your unintentional but extremely annoying flaw, slow and lack of priorities.
Things has a lot different from then. You have changed a lot. Actually we both did. I learned to love and accept all your best,flaws and even shortcomings. That's how our relationship works. Though how ultimately opposite we are from the very beginning of our cool love story, no one thought we will gonna make it last but we did and finally say our vows. Like any other love story, ours is not always a bed of roses. I wanna thank you for being cool in times like I m freaking mad at you. You still managed to make me smile though I've reached my boiling point. Maybe I just love you that much that though I am extremely mad it will easily fades with you making fun of our problems. Now we are a family. You still have those cliches that I am complaining but that didn't make me love you less. I appreciate you more being a loving daddy to Lyxn. More loving husband to me. Good provider than ever. I am thankful for everyday that you were showering us your love. For signing a contract of full time daddy and a husband. :)).
Thank you for making me a person that I am today. Your love made me a better person, better than before we met sixty three months ago.
I am not an emotional type. Or rather I am but never shown my emotion to others or even to the closest person. I am tough. Hubby rarely sees me cry. As much as I control my emotion not to cry. I sometimes think I am a real guy. That crying is a sign of weakness for me to describe. That's why I experience tears of joy/overwhelming once. Last valentines day was my first experienced of it. I was amazed that it can happen to me to cry a river because of happiness. After that cheesy valentine, I never experienced it again. Even after I gave birth. Or should I say I am just tired of the process am gone through and got no chance to emote. I am happy, extremely happy for her arrival. But wait there's more... Here's the main character of my post.. The father. Hubby. As the nurse in the nursery showed them our angel, unconsciously a tear fell. He don't want it to be obvious cause he's with my mom and tried to wiped it away but it was then seen by mom. And as a secretive and private person I thought he will not tell it to anyone. Surprisingly as I borrowed his phone after 48 hours, when I try to clear his sent items, accidentally I read his messages to his boss and our godparent priest sharing his feeling.
hindi ko po napigilang maiyak faths nung nakita ko yung baby ko. ganun pala yun. I'm so very happy
Funny. I found it funny because I am not used to it that he will react that way and even told it to somebody but touching. I can feel how much he loves our princess. Every night though how dead tired he is, he still have time and energy to take care of his little girl. Lucky my princess right.
I promised hubby he will be back to school supposedly this year. It was to lather and get different certificates on programs relating to information technology. It is not a literal school schedule with units and etcetera only a specific programs and trainings. Since we got married, now having baby, plans were set aside. Those kind of certifications is not a joke at its expense. It actually cost huge to our budget. It's like taking a master degree. I know he still wanted to pursue that career though he's not bringing it up recently. Hubby is the eldest son, a father almost who has all the responsibility. Too bad to think though his siblings has family now, we still need to consider them, his mom and younger sister solely his (and now us) responsibility. As a wife, I know I need to accept those unacceptable truth. We are Filipino!Culture and beliefs! Though how I wanted to support hubby to his dream, he always said we still have priorities. I don't even want to be back on my field as a nurse for I know and aware that I will not be compensated well and that fact will not going to help us. I am then setting my plans to be back on a BPO industry after giving birth. Though we have a small business that can accommodate our everyday needs, seems it was still not enough as I have mentioned hubby has an never ending responsibility. The only thing that we see possibilities if we will both work and that's the time he can study. I know how hard for it to hubby but he never shows it. He just laugh at it, sometimes includes in his corny jokes but I can feel his eagerness to have trainings done. If fortunately we will be blessed so much next year, I want to give hubby what he's dreaming for. Cross fingers with prayers. I know we can!
I have been passing by this meme badge that I always saw on Ate Jona's blog. First because I can't recognized it whether a meme badge or a blog badge. But now I know and already found out it's a meme! And I am excited to be part of it! I am formerly enjoying the couple's corner cause it's about you and your partner stories. I love to write about us and read about others too. Since that meme has been closed by the host Mommy Liz, I am then looking for almost the same meme here in the blogosphere. Glad Ate Jona has this one.
As my first entry, the topic is about Fidelity.
Fidelity' is the quality of being faithful or loyal
If this word will be applied to our relationship, I am a hundred percent sure husband have this. I need not to ask nor test for it anymore. Seriously in our relationship for years I was the one who had more questionable acts when it talks about trust and loyalty that was before. If hubby has cliches to be called in our marriage, those were petty stuff like mañana habit, tardiness and so on that I learned to adjust to. But no bigger and heavier cliche'. Now as we enter another stage of our life, we were both sure then that we can assure each other we now have it within. As we solely offers our life to God and promised as He was the center of our marriage. These were only words,I know, maybe some who was in broken marriage I guess also stated the same phrase. How sure I am about these? It's because of what we have. I have faith in HIM and in him. Him as He lead me to these person now my husband. And him, my hubby, who remains to be with me and love me unconditionally.
Hey sissy's come and join us share our stories here in Sweet Saturday!
My cousin shared this to me on facebook. There I started to like her and watched her songs on youtube. Hope you enjoy Maddi Jane as I enjoy her renditions of songs. She's also a lovely pretty girl. Enjoy watching her.
I quite forgot the date recently and just focusing on our angel's arrival that I am no able to check on what's date today. I was just surprise on Huny's message last night exactly twelve am. "Happy 1st month wedding monthsary Hon". That exact words what he texted and I even think. Is it already a month?. Well it's the 20th obviously it is. :) I admit to myself I forgot, but of coarse not to admit to him, then I replied "I thought you forgot *wink*. Strategy wise. So he will never think I did. hehehe.
Seriously it's been a month that I am a legal wife ( no illegal one don't worry =)) it's just that living together in almost five years, emotionally were secured but legally not. So we call our life now legal and blessed living. What's new for a month?.. Nothing in particular. We're still the same. Except to the fact that were getting more and more excited each day for the angel's arrival. We have more concrete plans than before. We focus on long term goals now.
Shocks we became more matured after the wedding?! :D (surprised)
Happy 1st month Wedding Monthsary and counting Huny.
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Bit of a drama right?.heehee.. I am just too emotional that for some reason I can't stand with the rules I created. I am pertaining about my husband's stay at our apartment in Pasig while at work and told him to just get home here in Cavite every his off from work. This is because I know we have an approaching expenses and we need to tighten our belt more and prepare for our angel. It is a necessity! We just need to sacrifice both since it was just five days. Five days away from each other. And because of this situation, I pray that there is a communication service that has an "Everything you need" plan that can be offer to us. Like for example what Straight Talk provide to their consumers. As I have checked their website for my mom and her boy friend which is currently using their service. In Straight Talk there are no contracts, no surprise bills and no credit checks. Great nationwide coverage and excellent reception/connectivity. And Straight Talk only uses trusted phone manufacturers like LG, Motorola, Kyocera, Nokia and Samsung. Which is favorable to my hubby since most of the manufacturers listed were on his favorite list of gadgets manufacturer. This is also a best choice for like us whose tightening belts on budgets. Their monthly plan which is the “All You Need Plan” meets even the needs of heavy phone users with 1,000 minutes, 1,000 texts and 30 MB of web data. It's so economical and budget friendly to Call a friend or a loved one from time to time without worrying much of the expenses. Imagine unlimited calls, text, picture messaging and web for a whole year, for only $499.00! Service includes free from activation, reactivation, or termination fees. Absolutely no hassles to everyone going to be part of their service.
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Who wouldn't love to look lovely and sexy on the special day?Like for as well a wedding day! Is it a gunshot wedding type for my ex-boyfriend suffered with because I am already pregnant?! Some people ask us why did we get marry though I am 7th month pregnant. Why didn't we wait for me to give birth first? Are we such in a hurry because of what people might say?
This intriguing questions that we had to answer earlier,in and after our wedding day. It's like a big deal to get marry if the woman is pregnant. Even the priest and catechist ask us the same questions during our seminars. Actually I am also one of them who ask the same question to my husband. Of course I wanted to be sexy not unlike I am in my pictures.
Here are my ex boyfriend's answer:
He said it's been five years that we were living together, that fact already gave us a sin for we were not blessed. (So basically it's not a gunshot wedding dear friends =)).
Then he said that obviously were engaged to pre-marital sex because we were living together. (Super agree!)
Third, "when I ask you to marry me in the church you always said that it's too impractical and expensive. You always prefer a civil wedding and this time around when I got you pregnant you finally said yes. Maybe you think I am not serious and going to think twice because we need to settle first the baby's necessities and the giving birth fees.But those worries in expenses didn't stop me to pursue the church wedding. It is the first time you said yes and I know that if you already gave birth and think for the baby's need you will again insists a civil wedding." (He knew me well^^)
Fourth," I never believe in the sacrament of civil wedding. I only know and believe one process of being married, blessed by man and by God." (ouch!)
Least reasoning is that I am very much secure that our angel going to use my last name.hehe (am I a threat of threatening him?lol)
Lastly he said that "we've done so much mistake for years in our life together , it will be a best start if we start it all now in a blessed way.
Those answers I received from him is what I always use/said when we were asked. I knew from the start that he is pure-blooded Catholic and practiced Catholic norms. But I never expects that much. His fourth answers were the words that amazed the priest who interviewed us. Those satisfies some people's intriguing minds.(including me lol)
We we're not after on what people around might say, I have to respect my husband's beliefs and decisions. Though I am much of a nega because I am not going to look good that day, yet it gave me a different very light feeling after the wedding ceremony. After five years of living together our first night last August 20, 2011 was the most relaxed, peaceful, complete and very happy night.
We just got married last 20th of this month. We actually wanted our wedding day the same day as our anniversary as lovers. But since our anniversary falls on weekdays August 24 is Wednesday, we considered our visitors work schedules. Having a different date for our wedding anniversary didn't mean that we will also move our lovers anniversary date. Instead we actually celebrated it with more blessed and overflowing love to each other.
Since our honeymoon getaway has been postponed , we planned to stay at Red Ginger Farm also known as Balay Indang. A day or two stay in the place will supposedly serve as our honeymoon. I already booked a schedule for it but again seems somethings holding us back to be far from home. So we decided to cancel it. We end up going to Immaculate Concepcion Church in Baclaran.Finished a three pm mass and novena.Pray together. Prior to that we give ourselves last time to pig out on Max's Place. As much as we love rice, we both have 3 extra rice.=)).. Last time because we were both be on a diet after this!
After mass we decided to watch at IMAX. and again as always most of the movies currently showing in the cinema were downloaded by my snob, we had a hard time choosing what we're going to watch. After an hour of strolling inside IMAX theater lobby, we finally decided to watch Conan the Barbarian.
As always the flow of the story was very common, but we still enjoy the movie and the movie house checking other lovers. Lesbian and gays, and normal boyfriend girlfriend lovers.
These date was far from what we planned on what to have on our fifth year. We were actually looking for it to be celebrated out of town, outer than our place (lol) .Like what we had in the first plan in Cebu and Bohol. But most important thing happened why plans didn't pursue is to be considerate most with our bundle of joy inside me. We can celebrate our anniversary as simple as it is as long as no one's health will be compromised especially our baby. Maybe soon if we were three we can pursue the same plans.
Obviously my blogs seemed to be invaded by web spiders as it is. I may not able to update any post. Finally we tied the knot and bell rang on the date provided on the picture itself. At long last that big day is over. It's really a tiring thing and though how organized we want it to be there were really some distractors yet we were still happy at the end of the day. A start of a more blessed by parents and especially God, journey.
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It may sound sad but instead I am so much happy. Finally it's our last month as lovers! Does it sound that I am all fed up? Lol!. Absolutely not! I am just excited how we will finally decided to tie the knot. How you convinced me marrying you in the church. Though how hard to fix everything we need. Next month, it will not going to reach our anniversary date prior to it we will be then a blessed couple.
I can feel how excited you are.. Don't worry the feeling is mutual. Lol!
I attended our batch reunion last Saturday. Though I am pregnant and the usual party for me is getting drunk, I still did enjoyed the party. Everyone misses me.. Seems like my presence is an impact and I am so overwhelmed for their treatment not because I am pregnant but because they really misses me much. They even recall some good old stories with my naughtiness and sad for that day wherein I can't be in that mode for I need to be more cautious cause I am not only one now.
The first guy I formally introduced to them , me, Aimee, Judith and Boron (for confidentiality purposes only, he's Mr. Smiley)
Like as we always did, the party started late, but still I need to go home with huny. They told me I can only go home if I let them meet my fiance. They were so eager to know whom am I going to marry. Who on earth can go along with my craziness and even agreed to marry me..hahaha. I only brought one guy since the last time we held a reunion. And they thought it was the same guy. Which is absolutely not! Though at the university during those days they knew I had a lot of flirtatious guys friend. ( I am just friendly). They even contacted Huny in the office and said as if I was kidnapped that they will not allow me to leave the party without meeting him.Of coarse that was just a joke. Without their knowing huny will really pick me up that day since it's already late and we're going home straight to Cavite.
Boron and Benjie and Huny's Arms as they were telling more about me..
Jes, Tyrene with her Baby Boy, Rica, Paul(behind me)Judith, Huny,Boron and Echo
Then they had the chance to meet Huny. Boron and Benjie were the guys who accommodates much to Huny. They told lot of stories craziness and even my kindness. Oh my God, I am not aware I had some.Lol .. From being a drunken master to peacemaker to ice breaker and a lot more. Boron calls me Labya.. In dual meaning. In nursing term it's a genital part for I was so green as he said. And for other term it's an endearment.
I was so amazed how huny reacts with their stories and huny shared stories of us too. I didn't expect that. If you guys knew him, he prefers to be a listener than a story teller. I was so touched how he shared our love story to them. So before we leave , we were the topic of conversation with endless jokes.
Huny said he had a great time with my friends and knowing some of my naughtiness I never mentioned to him. And when we arrived home, before we sleeps while touching my tummy , told me a message that I pretend did not heard by not reacting.
"How many of your friends will tell me that I am so lucky having you.?" Whoever them all I will always be proud having you, I love you Huny good mornight "
For I am aware that I only knew you in the recent 5 years . Exactly the day we met and counting more. I wasn't aware that we have been together since were young. We're classmates in summer classes but we're not aware of. We have pictures that surprise us both as we checked our childhood photos for our preparation in our upcoming wedding. Faith lead us to different paths but still at the end of the line destiny made us met. That's how magic played into our life. Love unexpectedly. I still remember the first day you describes me as a thin short lady, who was engaged in vices whom you said you'll never like for a lady. Yes you didn't like me but loved me and loving me. ;D and now calling me fat (same to you =)).. I still remember the days you were asking what's my shirt size, will you be looking to a teens or kids shirts to choose from to give as a gift to me, and today looking in the plus size to annoy me. (just like you ^_^) I have been by your side in your worst and best. We matured together and we will be growing old together.
Another year added for us to celebrate more. Now that we'll becoming three, you've become more of a loving man than ever before. Thank you for being you. For trying your best to give to me and to our angel literally everything that you can. The love, patience, understanding and lot more that you give to me every single day. How you make everything so light and positive in our darkest journey.
Happy Birthday Huny.. My snob, my best friend, my playmate, my commentator, my adviser, my pastor, my defender, my fan who always supports me, my lover, my partner and most especially my hubby.
Happy happy Birthday and We (our angel and me) Love you so Much..
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I 've never imagine that this amazing phone would come from LG. I can say that they are giving good competencies lately in our mobile phone industry, in terms of features of course. But following the thread of smartphones, I really never thought that having a dual core processor on a phone just like a high-end laptop or desktop computer would come from this brand and make this O2x gain a monster record in Guinness as "The First DualCore Smartphone".
Since cellphones has been introduced in the market, I always give an eye to the latest. But would anyone be contented by just merely seeing the phone in pictures or in videos? Maybe them but not me, LOL, so I try to sacrifice something or take a little from my savings to have it. In this way, I can compare and differentiate their peculiarity one from the other aside from the fact that I enjoy exploring their assets and flaws.
Once saw this LG Optimus 2X(O2x for short and that 2x stands for dual core processor I think), from a flyer while strolling in the mall with huny, got really amazed for its specs and features. I can't help but to stare every corner of the phone printed on the leaflet with 3D effect, looks really powerful and real smart.
After research and pondering on some instances(budget is the main of course) about this piece of technology, I finally decided to include it in our budget and get one sooner. I am patiently contenting myself with a low-end phone that I'm currently using because I'm still undecided what model and brand to buy for, but not until now. I lined up many choices but this phone really rocks in terms of everything, and I mean "everything"!
I'll tell you the real score and probably you'll understand the pointers that makes a smartphone a genius phone ;
NOTE: MOST OF THE WORDS SEEMED TO BE UNFAMILIAR OR NEW TO OTHERS THAT MAY PASS BY, FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING I INCLUDED THE DEFINITIONS OF SOME WORDS REDIRECTED TO WIKIPEDIA (thanks WIKI).
1.) Tegra2 chipset - a powerful dual-core ARM with 1Ghz speed, I really can't imagine that, plus the GeForce graphics(powered by NVIDIA) which is very familiar to me in terms of desktop and laptop computer with its stunning display, quality and performance especially in the world of gaming.
Benchmark Test sample via Quadrant(picked from YouTube)
2.) 4-inch IPS LCD(In-Plane Switching) capacitive touchscreen -super vibrant and crystal-like display, very nice colour, better viewing angles, battling with iPhone4's retina display and others' AMOLED/Super AMOLED display, I suggest you to have one and get ready to be stunned by this feature!
3.)Whooping 8megapixel camera and HD video recording - a digicam always ready on your hand or in your pocket, you'll surely don't miss any happy moments with you and with anyone else especially bloggers like us. Maybe it would have been much better if LG bundled it with aXenon flash, that would create a perfect phone. haha, LOL, that's too much to ask for. Another thing is the super-cool 1080p/720p HD video recording. When we talk about 1080p/720p resolution it signifies high-definition television(HDTV) like 16:9 widescreen aspect ratio making a resolution of 1,920pixels wide by 1,080 high, it's also tagged as FullHD, a really plus factor for the genius O2x.
Here's a sample pictures taken from O2x(courtesy of GSMArena) Click pictures to view its finest!
and here's the 1080p video pride of O2x(picked from YouTube)
at nightime(also from YouTube)
4. HDMI(High Definition Multimedia Interface) port - in line with the FullHD video recording feature, this is also one factor that this O2x has to boast off. It enables your device to connect to your PC, LCD monitor, TV or any device with compatible port, with this you can watch movies, play games and manage datas on your O2x baby in a high-definition way. :-)
This is a clear sample of how this HDMI port works(courtesy of PhoneArena)
5.) Threaded messaging - not all phones have this feature, just like having a continuous conversation(chatting) with your friend, no cuts, no interruption. You don't have to go back manually to inbox, outbox, sent items. This help lessen "out of this world" replies, wrong sent and frequently asked "hu u?!"(right?!). Whew, messaging made really easier.
6.) Android OS powered by Google - and lastly the very thing that this o2x made genius, the Android operating system. We can't deny that this OS is one of the most advanced as of today. With its very friendly user interface and market full of free and useful applications any phone can be genius, perfect pair with LG O2x making it real hardcore in the business.
found this pic through google search
*** OS highlights based on my Android experience(with HTC Wildfire); - tethering mode - you can use your O2x as a modem to connect through the internet if you don't have ISPs at home or you can also pair this O2x to your laptop and connect anywhere, anytime. - WI-FI hotspot - you can use your phone as a Wi-Fi router, share your internet connection to your friends and family. They can easily connect to your phone, enjoy Facebook, Twitter, or Blog together with the help of your genius O2x. - Adobe flashplayer 10.+ support -flashplayer is very important when it comes to browsing and surfing the net. When you're on YouTube you need flash, when opening website with graphics you need flash, when playing games on your browser it also needs flash. So, see how important this thing is? I think apple iPhones and various models don't support this one, a very lucky O2x . - open market - this thing killed the Nokia's ovi and Apple's store, android market is open-source and UNIX based, you can download applications and games for free, yes for free you heard it right, really a 10 times advantage.
By the way, Lg Optimus 2X comes with Android 2.2 Froyo and can be upgraded to 2.3 Gingerbread which can make your device more powerful. Nice deal, right?!
Here's the link (credits to the creator) for details if you want to learn more about Android OS;
So, do you think I would regret this genius choice?!
Hmm..
How about it's pricing and value?! Actually, compared to the other high-end and latest phone out in the market today, this O2x is not too pricey or expensive rather, with its features and elegant design this would probably a good buy for everyone. And of course, everyone also has second choice in mind when all else fails, right?! So, if my budget won't allow me for that O2x, I'll surely choose it's brother, the LG Optimus Black. Same elegance, same feature, and same greatness from the same reliable brand (LG, of course). Just a very little drawback I noticed was it has 5megapixel camera compared to 8megapixel O2x has, but still competes with other rivalries. Not a dual-core one, but still runs on 1Ghz processor which is still an advantage compared to other smartphones. It also runs on Android 2.2 Froyo, still it makes a smartphone a "genius" phone. One aspect this phone brags about is it's 4-inch NOVA display, clearest and brightest as stated by others, gives a natural experience reading your messages, emails and browsing the net. It may be also one of the thinnest phone out there today.
Lets take a last glance with "The Brothers" tag team in business and decide also for yourself.
photos courtesy of GSMArena Lg Optimus 2x (O2x)
Lg Optimus Black
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It needs me time to post for this because I need to ask for his siblings. Huny never been a brother to me hahaha.. He knew that. He's always been my baby and I am her ate slasher mom slasher huny.
Agnes said (his sister) huny always set as a good example to them. He minimizes flaws and faults and hides his bad self whenever his home. He rarely speak so he check his siblings activities in few words. Few questions but straight to what he wanted to know. He don't want her sisters wearing short shorts or revealing blouses. (conservative!) He plays basketball with his brother and it's friends to observe how they are outside home. He checks them by asking their mom to tell him the story or what happened in a week.That's why when his youngest brother was murdered he was too emotional, even up until today. He blames himself for what happened. He thought that he missed something for his youngest brother. That he failed his part as a brother.I even needed the help of his closest friend to calm him down and realized stop blaming his self. Gladly special thanks to Fr. Bubot for the help he was enlightened. And lastly, the best part as for her sister told me was, he never or hard to say no for a request. If he can, he always wanted to give everything.
I have a saint with me! hehehe.. Who will not be lucky having him then?!
The day we found out that I am pregnant, we've been excited all the more each day passes. We always talks about the baby and the future. That includes his/her name. We're still unsure of the gender though I believe that at least we have a saved name for either a girl or boy baby. Huny kept on playing with our baby's name. First he told me he wanted it to be a superhero type, then his online game character. Now his thinking of a funny,cool name he reads on gadget forums. It's not that he's making funny of our baby just that he was still undecided. The very first serious name he provided to me when I ask him for a baby girls is SHENDELLEZARE. He had this feeling that he told me, we will be having a baby girl. I even joked at him that maybe it was her ex-crush or so. But he answered me it is also one of the toughest character in the computer game. I knew he was an addictive gamer, he loves computer games more than movies though he appreciates good movies. Then I even think that my cousin's son named after an another character also in computer game which is Kerrigan, Shamel and Azrael. Now the younger generation in our clan will be filled with online game characters?..huh. Shendellezare seemed good I guess. But mom has a different request, She wanted to have it a name or even a second name Denise. Now I need to consider mom's request and thinking of it that will be a long name and I even wanted to have a Khmer on my baby's name.Waaa how will I sum it all up and granted our wants?.. But as for today, I don't know why I am feeling that maybe it's a boy. Anyway I always have bad intuition so the least that I as well will consider..hihihi
Aside from being a father from his siblings, he is also a father to his nephews. Sadly but true. Oh just three siblings anymore because his youngest brother died last year due to gunshot wound. Going back, yes he is a father of three. While sending her younger sister to college,she engaged to unplanned/unexpected pregnancy. Huny was like in deep sorrow during that time when he found out that her sister is pregnant. His sister did not marry the guy and shockingly the guy was years younger to his sister so expect it to be shouldered by him. She and the scenario as well the reason why we planned only just this year of having our own baby.Not later than same year when her sister got pregnant, his younger brother's girlfriend also got pregnant. Another hit for him. His brother was only 18 and the girl was 25 years old that time. Older than the two of us. But he recuperates fast and seeing those things that happened as a blessing. That's what I love about him. He rarely speaks but took things positively.Again as the given situation it was then under his responsibility. But wait there's more ( sounds like selling hahaha) After the delivery of the first child of his brother not later than same year again the girlfriend got pregnant. ( and that did not make me smile promise! if I am going to discuss about this drama ha! it's never ending lol) He's solely responsible for two ladies and now three nephews. When it says responsible no matter how broad it is, that's it!
Now that we'll be having our own family, Huny is having a hard time saying goodbye to the one's used to be his "family" before.Not a hard time to himself but the hard time the "family". Not goodbye physically but goodbye to the responsibilities hopefully. Her sister already graduated from college and her boyfriend, the father of her child also living in their house and just recently have a work same as her sister. His brother already have a work and he thinks it's about time to call his family "HIS FAMILY". He gave her mom a fund for a small business to generate income to support for her youngest sister studies and her mom alone with her pension. He set all the things they needed saying goodbye. But that truth that hurts is they were still not prepared and don't want to let go of Huny .
As a first time dad to our own baby, I can say he seems to be perfect. I guess his patience and being responsible has been tested for years because of his family. Now that we're having our own it's a lot different. More special, more caring and more of a perfect he wishes it to be. I need not to bother myself thinking how will it be for huny to be a father. Because I have seen it long time ago.
If got confuse of my title here it is:
He has three wives. Me, his sister (He stands as a husband), and his brother's girlfriend (still stands as a husband)
Father of 6
her sister, brother and youngest sister and three babies
Here's my melo-dramatic and a little bit of frustration share on today's couple's Corner
Huny is the eldest among in their family. Since his dad died when he's still in high school, he has no choice but to help his mom raising his 4 more siblings. At first, being in a father position is way out of his views. For him it's not a responsibility. He can help but not devotes his life. Which I beg to disagree. We had both same pattern of life. Early as 11 years old my dad passed away. My eldest brother which is only 16 years old was also forced to the reality that we need to help each other to survive. Not thinking twice or thrice he devoted his teenage life until he reached 28 helping mom and us raising each other. No regrets, all of us finished our studies. That's what I wanted him to adapt. His the eldest and though was asked or oblige, he need to learn to help his siblings. We lived together as early as 21 years old both of us and I don't wanna be blame by his siblings or even his mom that I stole him from them even if it is also his decision. A year being together and with my persuasion he learned helping his family. When the time he decided to help his family, blessings overflowed to him. We live wealthier than ever while helping his sister send to college and other siblings to school. He asks his mom to quit working and focused guiding his teenage younger sister and brother. He provide a better than ever living for his family. I am still the apple of his eyes but I am much happier that he thinks of his family.
It was last May when he wake me up with this song. As I always wanted to wake up late and it seems that he can't move without me awake. This song was played through his phone. And he whispers in my ear "this is for your mom".
Enjoy these lovely music I happened to know by him. Probably because our wedding bells started ringing huh.. =)
We have been together for years, I wonder how come we did not yet felt the feeling of boredom to each other. hahaha.. I am not wishing for it to come I am just wondering. Full straight three and a half years, literally everyday were together no missed. The first time we haven't been together was last April 2010 when his work demand for a travel to Cebu. It was the first time for three weeks away and we both feel sad about it. It even made him thought that he wanted to refused to his boss. But I disagreed to his idea. I explained that sooner or later we both need to hug changes in our living. It's not always about us. He gladly accepts and went to Cebu. But our communication was nonstop. We had text messages, ym or even skype and there were a lot of times he called in a day. Expensive addiction (lol).
Especially now when we found out I am pregnant he misses me more and more.He always wanted to be by my side.He wants to always come home here at Cavite. But it's impractical again and his health will be compromised. I strictly scheduled his day when to come home and stay at our apartment. Since he continued paying the apartment, he must took the advantage of it.It's not that I don't want him to be home I just don't want to compromise his health. His gaining too much weight but not healthy. That's because lack of enough rest from commuting 3-4 hours going home.But every time he comes home I felt a different happy feeling whenever his around. Maybe that's how we love each other much. ^_^..No sawa factor!
I forgot the title of the movie but that movie really made me and my friends vomits because of the scene which is a tragedy like and camera is also like in a disaster.
It's confirmed and already booked! As usual mom gave us a gift early as yesterday. Thanks to Cebu Pacific promos. I only wanted to visit back again Mom's province but because I need to follow norms, I cannot. We were getting married this 20th of August and feast on Samar will be on August 16.Folks said it is not good to travel that far before the wedding date because it is likely prone to accidents. As what they say. So instead mom ask me to booked her and her sister with the help of my cousin Ate Joan who works at the said airline company whom give me tips regarding on discounts and booked for us sometimes.Gladly, or because she felt guilty (hihihi) mom volunteered to booked for us,Huny and me, since she have known that there is a promo for all domestic flights from June 1st to 3rd.
Now we just need to finish fees obligations related to our upcoming wedding and after that we can enjoy mom's gift. Though by that time I am 7 months pregnant and honey moon will not be an exciting thingy (to others) anymore (but for us it is!! lol). Of all the destination we wanted to go together, first on our list was Cebu. It is because of huny's promised to his rector friend ands soon to be godfather Fr. Bubot that we will be visiting him there and the Rogationist College branch at Cebu, huny's alma mater. Looking forward for a happy and safe vacation. I am now much of excited for the honey moon than the wedding itself..hihihi..
We're not yet married but we were getting married this August. It's because before I met him and till we've been together I don't believe in marriage. Anyway everything changed now. We have been living together for 5 years. We always have our own place and provide for our own. It's like a life of a married couple but only the absence of the holy sacrament. So we considered each other husband and wife.
He's not an ideal husband if it talks about household chores. Don't get me wrong with this I love him to bits and will never stay that long with him and looking forward more years to stay together if I did not. I pertains to household chores. A lot that He Can't! His family was not that rich but he was treated differently. He was spoiled by his mom. That until today I can feel that too much favoritism in their house when it talks about him. That leads him not to learn household chores. Blame it to her mom alone.(hehe) First years together was the hard part. I had to teach him everything. I am person knows how to live alone. I was taught and trained by my mom. Not only me but all of us three, my brothers and me. Mom taught us to be independent whenever and wherever. Move on our own. Live to survive.Couple's meant to help each other. Through thick and thin. From easiest to hardest. Husband cannot help me at home. He can but I prefer not to.^_^ He will just going to mess things. hehehehe.. He is the best cause he will do everything to work and earn hard to provide for someone to help me or do the task instead. Impractical? that's what he is. Little by little living with us (mom's house) he learned a lot. Somehow he's open for changes and learning..hehehehe.His eagerness to learn makes me love him much.
Outside home he's the best. (bawi lol). He's a jealous hubby ever even until today that I am in my second trimester. It feels good because it makes me feel I am still the most beautiful though I gain weight and a lot of changes in my body due to pregnancy related reasons happened. Last night when were buying my milk and vitamins, somebody texted me. The number was not saved on my phone and the sender did not bother to introduce itself. It's just a simple "hi" and "how are you" message. Then he read it and ask me who was it. I said I don't know cause I really don't know who was it. He joked on me but not directly he just said that the pregnant lady has a textmate (may katextmate ang buntis). I laughed. I know it was a joke but that's how he is if he's jealous. Does it in a joke then later on keep on asking me who was it. The cashier even laughed and other customers. I supposed to feel ashamed but instead I felt proud.
Lastly, I will never forget the day when he chose me instead of his dreams, wants,some of his important friends and his own mom. It's just a short period of time commotion but it really has a big impact and tattooed on my heart. He never failed to let me feel I am the most especial.
A title of a noon time show right?! It's actually an expression of gladness. The same way I felt when I received an email from Trixie of Nuffnang. I never expects, as what I have mentioned I am not fortunate in promotions/ contests. Thank God, me with hubby and some friends can join in the first Nuffamily day! Though it has been cancelled because of the bad weather, I am still looking forward for this adventure re-scheduled on the 4th of June.
Currently a dear friend that going with me in this event facing a big problem. It was a good news for her when I told her that we belong to the list that we can join the family day. I feel great that I somehow cease what she's suffering by giving her this good news and including her to my list that I wanna be with.
I am so excited for this day to come, to enjoy with friends and hubby. I wish there'll be no hassle came in the way for it be finally pushed through.
Why do I love nuffnang?.. I registered as a member here at Nuffnang years ago. I can say am not always as fortunate as others when it comes to contest.I already accepted that long ago when I was still a child. There were no such word as luck but instead a deserving ones. I always join contests here at nuffnang but never did I won. Believe it or not I didn't take that against to hate nuffnang. In fact the more I lose , the more I am eager to join more contests. It's simply because they did choose for the best. And that supports the fact that I need to improve more to be qualified for that best they chose. Nuffnang helps me to improve. Gives me ideas and opens opportunities. Other than that it gives me more information and updates. Also I love the way Nuffnang works. The way they held projects for a cause, a contest that has not only good prizes but benefits in life.
This 28th of May 2011 at 2 in the afternoon at Crosswinds Tagaytay will be the first Nuffamily Day here in the Philippines. I have already read about this kind of gathering from Nuffnang in other countries and I guess for this is the first here in the Philippines, well expect it to be a blast. Full of fun,enjoyment and not to mention prizes. This Nuffamily Day event will never be possible with some of the generous sponsors that supports Nuffnang. A special thanks to Pizza Hut, The Picasso Boutique Serviced Residences, Bisolvon, NEO, Mister Donut, Skechers, Del Monte pineapple juice, Jack n Jill, Fit n Right,JAC Liner, Jollibee , Hapee.
For the nth time, I may not be lucky to qualify for the first Nuffamily Day, I am happy to share this to everyone that drops and passes by my blog. Cross my fingers and toes if fortunately this time I will be lucky, me, my hubby. A fellow blogger mommy Jean and also a blogger friend Ferry with her husband will loves to join the Nuffamily Day and will gonna bring our own transportation with a driver and another blogging friend. It's a total of 7 of us awaiting to be part of the Lifting lanterns this Nuffamily Day!
