This Saturday been a very hectic day for me. Huny and I have had lots of appointments attended. It is ok to have had lots of appointments if only it will reside in one place or about near will do so. But appointments made it differ due to the kilometers we have to went through to meet all those. It was just three important meetings. But those three as what I have told held in different places. First at Ortigas next to Paranaque and lastly to GMA Cavite. And appointments are time pressured! What a toxic day. Pity my other half he was so so tired at the end of the day. Literally end of the day we went home around 11:45 pm. He almost took advantages of chances taking a nap even in a tricycle for a 10 minutes less travel. I was so glad and proud for my huny. He tried his best to bears the tiring day. Imagine he came from a graveyard shift. He was awake and functioning from four in the afternoon Friday till eleven forty five in the evening Saturday. An additional strength for him that made him keep standing I guess, was the fact that he now[that day Saturday] have had another accomplishment made for his family. After an accomplishment year 2008 of providing his family or making a better shelter to live on while keeping on providing for his younger sister's education in college.[ Huny is solely the bread winner of his mom and 4 siblings and two nephews] Today Yek now graduates! Another accomplishment that I know he was very very proud of. Good thing to my huny in few years he accomplished things he needed to do. While providing his family he also stand and provide for our future and me alone. Never imagined he would be that responsible when I met him. He was a non focused, not goal oriented, brat and also a freelancer before. He was changed a huge! And I am so proud of him! Kudos to huny! Though Yek once made a mistake disappointing you by having a baby at a young age, you were such a loving brother to hug and help her stand again. So proud of you! I love you more. :D
I never imagine that my life will now be with a neighbor! I posted previously I hate my community before but here it goes my one true love belongs in the community I never loved. I never believed in destiny but I guess that's what had happened.;D. 
We met in a party held at Tagaytay. It was their school college department acquaintance party and also a friend says that it was their post celebration of their birthdays as well.( July 8 is Dhan and huny's b-day, and Jeff, their friend was July 12: party held July 21) I was invited by my childhood friend Dhan to come along and bring my friends into that party. Since I was working that time my first business process outsourcing job, I am used to be out of the house at night. It was an invitation from Dhan (so it was him who wanted to flirt with his former girlfriend Julie now wife! you're mom should not be blaming me.. It was you Dhan!you!you!) I should've had brought a group but plans didn't pursued the guys and gals supposed to be with me went to a bar instead of our first plan in Tagaytay. 
Still we went to Dhan's party unfortunately it was only me and my soul mate Julie. It just that I felt guilty if I am not attending to his invitation because it was his first invitation to me (before he was my crush..hahaha though Makati to Tagaytay was miles away pumayag pa rin ako!hehehe) and I only went there to say thanks somehow it doesn't seem that I rejected his invitation and go home early not intended to finished the event. Voila! We arrived and he introduced us to his friends.Lots a name I can't remember now.hihihi. In that party the guy who will caught really caught me was there.. I can still remember how I look at him(flirt me! :p). He was wearing black polo shirt opened with white sando inside complementing his fair complexion and a one sided hair waxed and a red kissable lips! When we were introduced everyone was there the girls and the guys approaching and welcoming us but he is the only one remains sitting at his chair just give us a little look. Neither he smiles nor nod! Really a Snob! When Dhan noticed that I look at him Dhan called him and introduced to us. Snob attacks! He came near say "oi" and told that excused him because he will be getting something somewhere. It was only seconds he stayed in front of me and Julie. Dhan apologized in his behalf and said that the snob was kind maybe etc etc. Yeah my planned went through, we went home early; early in the morning next day!We slept over to Danica's crib where we joined continues celebrates. Julie and Dhan enjoy each others company and as the party goes along the Nerve Snob becomes nice and chat with me. I though that it was just that! After we left, we also left memories and a night of acquaintance. Julie and I have a lot of things and perception in common and we decided that's it! From Tagaytay we went home here in Cavite first before going back to Makati. 
We stayed weekends here and in my surprise Sunday of that week when my mom ask me to buy something in the store he bump in the path walk unconsciously. I was so surprised and a bit ashamed! Seeing Dhan is not impossible but seeing him around was a big no! I flirted to him. It's just a simple kiss on the lips that I explained a friendship goodbye kiss before we leave the place. I wanted to melt like a candle that time. How come he was here. I assume that he only stays at Dhan's place like Julie does. But he said no! He was also living here! Now we were neighbors! 
gave to me, he still sensed that I was not really happy with it. I wished to keep it as long as I can but since it was suggested by him, no need for me to deny nor hide what I really wanted. Since he knew what possibly could make me happy and contented then it was replaced with a brand new Sony Ericsson T700. Which now I for surely will keep and if possible will be forever.Thanks for the patience Hun. Thanks for being kind. I so lurve the new one.
1. Do you have trouble finding solutions to problems together? It's not about persuading your guy/girl that you're right. It's whether the two of you can consistently find a comfortable middle ground.
2. Is your partner making most of the decisions?
Your point of view needs a full and fair hearing before you both decide on an outcome.
3. Does he or she withhold affection?
It's not just about sex—holding hands and hugging are essential. Do you share a smile or kiss at the end of the day?
4. Is your mate defensive? Are you?
Shoulder responsibility and suggest a do-over. That will make it easier to admit you were wrong.
5. Is he or she inflexible?
You don't want your spouse to be stuck in a rut.
The priorities you set 20 years ago may not apply if one of you loses a job or gets sick.
Bottom line: If you've answered affirmatively to most of these questions, it's time to get to work. Discussing your answers might be a good place to start.
