Thursday, July 30, 2009

Refreshing Relationship



All relationships experiencing rough roads.. Even though it is said to be the perfect match, best couple, best pair etc still it would go through some rough roads of the love journey., I was about to share this 4 ways in refreshing thus nurturing relationships. Probably it works. This tips are probing ones, enough to help distinguished what was the real score about the relationship.

1. Do you have trouble finding solutions to problems together? It's not about persuading your guy/girl that you're right. It's whether the two of you can consistently find a comfortable middle ground.

2. Is your partner making most of the decisions?

Your point of view needs a full and fair hearing before you both decide on an outcome.

3. Does he or she withhold affection?

It's not just about sex—holding hands and hugging are essential. Do you share a smile or kiss at the end of the day?

4. Is your mate defensive? Are you?

Shoulder responsibility and suggest a do-over. That will make it easier to admit you were wrong.

5. Is he or she inflexible?

You don't want your spouse to be stuck in a rut.

The priorities you set 20 years ago may not apply if one of you loses a job or gets sick.

Bottom line: If you've answered affirmatively to most of these questions, it's time to get to work. Discussing your answers might be a good place to start.

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