Catching Up

My husband is so much aware of the story about "ofizserye". An office flirtationship  starring  former friends.

He accidentally read the conversation one time when I asked him to checked my phone who texted me and my messenger is always open at our computer and in the tablet. So I just shared him the "ofizserye" story.

That was a former friend who chose to try the feeling of infidelity to her husband and the usual guy who will grab any opportunity for the girl who just opened the possibilities. Funny the girl always says they we're not doing anything wrong cause there's no physical contact. Alright, talk to the hand :p ..

Former friend because I refused to call her a friend, I burst out what I felt when she finally got what she wanted.  She lied for a purpose and use me. 

Oh well this is not about them. This is about us, me and hubby, relating to what was happening to their marriage. FYI both the cast of "ofizserye" portrayed to have a happy complete family. Both were well of living and their husband and wife were successful professionals. 

Oh life is not really fair. You can't have it all.

 Anyway that's one of our hot topic during our date night. And as he said so, reason why other couple's tend to look for someone whom they can jive/ enjoy with because they were not enjoying their spouses company anymore. As he said never look for anybody's companionship aside from your husband/wife. 
Very well said Sir. 

But actually this is our pre-birthday celebration for him. Happy 32nd h0n. mwuahh. 
So I posted this to my social media account with the caption.: 


Don't ever stop dating your wife and don't ever stop flirting with your husband.. Baka sa iba pa makipagdate at makipagflirt yan 

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We are One

When you get married, the couple is called as one. Whatever your issues keep it to yourselves, within the family or better talk about it as husbands and wife. Relatives and in laws can't help neither. I can't remember if it was an advice or I read a book or heard (whatsoever) that a couple's problem will not be solve by anyone but only the party involve. Advices, reactions, suggestions sometimes make it more complicated. Better do a counseling together. Together! It should always be together!
A good friend of mine keep on posting about their couple's issue in her social media account. She was known to be the nicest and most patient gal in high school. I am opt to send her a private message worrying if how she will handle my reactions about her post. She's a dear friend indeed and my concern is pure. She's one of the people who treated me and teaching me to be a lady like. I remember the days that she was like my "mommy" at school. Glad that after our conversation at least I think, I made her felt a little better. I really hope so.

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I am the Luckiest Woman

You may be weak at times but I assure you you have me at your back.
You may be silent at the moment but I am here to cheer you up and make your life a little too noisy.
You may be hesitant at times, I am here what matters most.
Your strong faith and love to God is our engine to fuel all things up.
And that's why I love you hon.

Sent from my iPhone

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Working it Together - Getting Fit

I know, we're guilty. We are both O-B-E-S-E. We can't help it. No enough time to sleep, not so healthy diet to much consumption of unnecessary food . Hubby started biking. At first a simple bike and keep on upgrading and as per their term "upgraditis" condition. I love the idea since I am really don't have the power to stop him or limit him on his intake. He cannot do basketball because he has ACL Injury.  He said can go unto running either. Cannot go back to the gym anymore etcetera etcetera. He convinced me that biking best suites him to maintain a good health despite his intakes.Oh well I am get his point , tired of arguments and cannot beat him so he suggested me to join him instead.

Our first bike date was November 2, 2014 , All Souls Day. And I just borrowed a super heavy bike which supposedly for downhill type not for a road type biking.

Picture after numerous rest. hehehe

Picture right after the trail going to the public cemetery to pay a visit. I was about to collapse.

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Appreciating Him More

I do appreciate my husband . Seriously I do! I know how imperfect he is but seemed to be perfect to me. We may have some issues but we can immediately work it out. I appreciate his patience and his understanding. Even spoiling me at online shopping and my frequent visits to online shop like Zalora or any other online dealing websites. I love how we handle each others areas of opportunity's to work on. At time's I am stubborn, my husband always handling it to the full extent he can. We never met halfway when we're both mad. It's always one way or another rule. The reason that making me more appreciates him was knowing some people, some guys which do not have enough patience and love as him when it comes to their woman. I am a blessed mean woman having him in my life.

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I Thank God for This Day

I can't thank God enough that angels sent you to your mom. You were born, nourished and grew up to be a better person. Your far from perfect yet we loves you that much. I guess that's the magic of love that binds us. Acceptance, understanding and loving despite and in spite of.  The moment I knew you seven years ago, you were far from that person now. Everyday your growing and maturing. Like a lady that blossoms beautifully, that's how you grew as well. Day by day turning into better and better person.

I know we sometimes have misunderstanding, conflicts and issues--- but we're surpassing all of those. We're not perfectly match made from heaven, instead we're two ultimately opposite individual who forced our love story to turned out to reality. Which we (isn't it? :D ) never regret doing so. We have a long journey waiting ahead of us and I know we will face it all together as a cheerful , tough and loving family.

Cheers to this day! The same day my heart melts (as it pours to yours :D ) . More birthdays Daddy. Second year we celebrated it as a family and another gift to you our baby boy :D (as you say so precious gifts enough you received from HIM).

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Happy Father's Day Daddy!

Thank you for the patience. You may not be the perfect husband but I know in her eyes you are a perfect dad. Though sometimes you were the same reason why she gets hurt, she know it still you who saved her. Don't worry only us (around) can notice that its your fault. :)  The important is your daughter believes you were always her hero.

Now that we're becoming four I am rooting for a bigger change. Bigger change from you, from me too and from our daughter as well. As we welcome our new member of the family there are lots of changes and I know some bumps on the roads as well but we can all surpass it as whole loving family.

Happy Father's day Daddy. We love you!

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27th High

I thought I couldn't make anything special on his day since I am a SAHM. Again for the nth time blogging moolah saves me!! Hubby is turning his 27th tommorrow glad that a week ahead moolah's already on my pp. I am not actually checking my Paypal account regularly. I only checked the email to be sure that I have been paid for the transactions I did. This is because whenever I am aware that I have some earnings there I am tempted to buy online deals. For the past five months I became an impulsive voucher buyer and I know that it isn't a good way of financing our needs. Anyway, I cannot afford  to give him a surprise since were together 24/7 but instead  I just plan of giving him a small party. It may be obvous but I know he will love it. Especially the fact that funds didn't came from our small business but on my blogging moolah. ( Until today he is hesitant to believe that I earn from blogging) Though he did experienced the fruit of blogging.

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Rhythm of Love

Oh how I love this song, but it made me cry every time I hear this. This is the song used on my late cousin's wedding video. But am here sharing for those who wants an idea for a good video music.

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Listing Priorities

This post brought to you by Walgreens. All opinions are 100% mine.

As we became a family, we were now more careful with our expenses. Having a baby is not an easy as a bee life. It is more serious and really tightening belt scenario as always. But no regrets, the joy  that our baby gives us everyday is priceless. We can bear everything and anything for her. But of coarse as parents we want to avail freebies,discounts or savings the market offers. Who wouldn't love those. Instead of spending too much in one necessities while you can look for ways on how you can save  without compromising the quality of needs. Every cent is important. Just right in time that Walgreens is offering a special discount on annual membership for its Prescription Savings Club at Walgreens: http://www.walgreens.com/pharm…For $10 a year, a family membership covers everyone in your immediate family, including a spouse, dependents 22 and younger and pets. Individuals may join for $5. Join and receive discount prices on your prescriptions. Savings on more than 8,000 brand-name and all generic medications. Also have discounts on flu shots, pet prescriptions, nebulizers and diabetic supplies and offers bonuses when you purchase Walgreens brand products and photofinishing services. These exciting components of being a member of prescription savings club is absolutely a big advantage for a wise parent like us. It really helps the budget of every family since health is each and everyone's priority. I wish they continue this kind of promotion and I am one of those that support Walgreens and inviting you dear readers as well by staying updated by liking them on Walgreens on Facebook and following them on Walgreens on Twitter. Encourage your readers to do the same.

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3 Girls in a Row

Three girls in a row. That's the prediction to us of a family friend healer. Most of her prediction to our family happened and proven from 13 years ago till today. And because of that I do believe in her.  

That prediction having three girls in a row made hubby more excited. And also because of that thought as early as today he decided not to hand down the baby rocker, stroller and other stuff of our two month old baby to her sister that having a girl in March. Silly hubby but I disagree. Those stuff should be use since I am (alone) wanted to have the next baby three years from now. As he explained that next year I will be again in the delivery room and the next year and next to that year and to the next and last year I am going to give birth to our children. Imagine my hubby wants me to die (kidding). If we will be having three girls in a row for real so we will end up having five kids. I know the economy is not so friendly as for today and we need to be practical and plan our children's future. Anyway this is just a plan that I considered a very blurred one. Most of our plans were concrete and just waiting for the right time to be done but for this one a blurry side which also depends on what we were experiencing as of the present time.So let's wait and see what's waiting for the future :)

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Sixty Three

Hon,

It's our 63rd month being together. I never get tired of remembering from the very first day.. The day I told myself  "by hook or by crook he will be the one for me". The day you snob and just nod on me made me felt more challenged. hahaha. I never regrets those times I felt like giving up but gladly I didn't because of you being so childish, to your unintentional but extremely annoying flaw, slow and lack of priorities. 

Things has a lot different from then. You have changed a lot. Actually we both did.  I learned to love and accept all your best,flaws and even shortcomings. That's how our relationship works. Though how ultimately opposite we are from the very beginning of our cool love story, no one thought we will gonna make it last but we did and finally say our vows. Like any other love story, ours is not always a bed of roses. I wanna thank you for being cool in times like I m freaking mad at you. You still managed to make me smile though I've reached my boiling point. Maybe I just love you that much that though I am extremely mad it will easily fades with you making fun of our problems. Now we are a family. You still have those cliches that I am complaining but that didn't make me love you less. I appreciate you more being a loving daddy to Lyxn. More loving husband to me. Good provider than ever. I am thankful for everyday that you were showering us your love. For signing a contract of full time daddy and a husband. :)).    

Thank you for making me a person that I am today. Your love made me  a better person, better than before we met sixty three months ago.

Happy Sixty Three Huny/Dad. I love you much.

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Sweet Saturday 18: Fidelity

I have been passing by this meme badge that I always saw on Ate Jona's blog. First because I can't recognized it  whether a meme badge or a blog badge. But now I know and already found out it's a meme! And I am excited to be part of it! I am formerly enjoying the couple's corner cause it's about you and your partner stories. I love to write about us and read about others too. Since that meme has been closed by the host Mommy Liz, I am then looking for almost the same meme here in the blogosphere. Glad Ate Jona has this one.

As my first entry, the topic is about Fidelity.  

Fidelity' is the quality of being faithful or loyal

If this word will be applied to our relationship, I am a hundred percent sure husband have this. I need not to ask nor test for it anymore. Seriously in our relationship for years I was the one who  had more questionable acts when it talks about trust and loyalty that was before. If hubby has cliches to be called in our marriage, those were petty stuff like mañana habit, tardiness and so on that I learned to adjust to. But no bigger and heavier cliche'. Now as we enter another stage of our life, we were both sure then that we can assure each other we now have it within. As we solely offers our life to God and promised as He was the center of our marriage. These were only words,I know, maybe some who was in  broken marriage I guess also stated the same  phrase. How sure I am about these? It's because of  what we have. I have faith in HIM and in him. Him as He lead me to these person now my husband. And him, my hubby, who remains to be with me and love me unconditionally.

Hey sissy's come and join  us share our stories here in Sweet Saturday!

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Celebrating 5 Years Together

We just got married last 20th of this month. We actually wanted our wedding day the same day as our anniversary as lovers. But since our anniversary falls on weekdays August 24 is Wednesday, we considered our visitors work schedules. Having a different date for our wedding anniversary didn't mean that we will also move our lovers anniversary date. Instead we actually celebrated it with more blessed and overflowing love to each other.

Since our honeymoon getaway has been postponed , we planned to stay at Red Ginger Farm also known as Balay Indang. A day or two stay in the place will supposedly serve as our honeymoon. I already booked a schedule for it but again seems somethings holding us back to be far from home. So we decided to cancel it. We end up going to Immaculate Concepcion Church in Baclaran.Finished  a three pm mass and  novena.Pray together. Prior to that we give ourselves last time to pig out on Max's Place. As much as we love rice, we both have 3 extra rice.=)).. Last time because we were both be on a diet after this!

 After mass we decided to watch at IMAX. and again as always most of the movies currently showing in the cinema were downloaded by my snob, we had a hard time choosing what we're going to watch. After an hour of strolling inside IMAX theater lobby, we finally decided to watch Conan the Barbarian. 

As always the flow of the story was very common, but we still enjoy the movie and the movie house checking other lovers. Lesbian and gays, and normal boyfriend girlfriend lovers.

These date was far from what we planned on what to have on our fifth year. We were actually looking for it to be celebrated out of town, outer than our place (lol) .Like what we had in the first plan in Cebu and Bohol. But most important thing happened why plans didn't pursue is to be considerate most with our bundle of joy inside me. We can celebrate our anniversary as simple as it is as long as no one's health will be compromised especially our baby. Maybe soon if we were three we can pursue the same plans.

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26th Year of Existence

For I am aware that I only knew you in the recent 5 years . Exactly the day we met and counting more.  I wasn't aware that we have been together since were young. We're classmates in summer classes but we're not aware of. We have pictures that surprise us both as we checked our childhood photos for our preparation in our upcoming wedding. Faith lead us to different paths but still at the end of the line destiny made us met. That's how magic played into our life. Love unexpectedly. I still remember the first day you describes me as  a thin short lady, who was engaged in vices whom you said you'll never like for a lady. Yes you didn't like me but loved me and loving me. ;D and now calling me fat (same to you =)).. I still remember the days you were asking what's my shirt size, will you be looking to a teens or kids shirts to choose from to give as a gift to me, and today looking in the plus size to annoy me. (just like you ^_^) I have been by your side in your worst and best. We matured together and we will be growing old together. 

Another year added for us to celebrate more. Now that we'll becoming three, you've become more of a loving man than ever before. Thank you for being you. For trying your best to give to me and to our angel literally everything that you can. The love, patience, understanding and lot more that you give to me every single day. How you make everything so light and positive in our darkest journey.

Happy Birthday Huny.. My snob, my best friend, my playmate, my commentator, my adviser, my pastor, my defender, my fan who always supports me, my lover, my partner and most especially my hubby.

Happy happy Birthday and We (our angel and me) Love you so Much..

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He is a Loving but Strict Kuya ( Brother)

It needs me time to post for this because I need to ask for his siblings. Huny never been a brother to me hahaha.. He knew that. He's always been my baby and I am her ate slasher mom slasher huny. 

Agnes said (his sister) huny always set as a good example to them. He minimizes flaws and faults and hides his bad self whenever his home. He rarely speak so he check his siblings activities in few words. Few questions but straight to what he wanted to know. He don't want her sisters wearing short shorts or revealing blouses. (conservative!) He plays basketball with his brother and it's friends to observe how they are outside home. He checks them by asking their mom to tell him the story or what happened in a week.That's why when his youngest brother was murdered he was too emotional, even up until today. He blames himself for what happened. He thought that he missed something for his youngest brother. That he failed his part as a brother.I even needed the help of his closest friend to calm him down and realized stop blaming his self. Gladly special thanks to Fr. Bubot for the help he was enlightened. And lastly, the best part as for her sister told me was, he never or hard to say no for a request. If he can, he always wanted to give everything.

I have a saint with me! hehehe.. Who will not be lucky having him then?!

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First Time A Father But Husband of Three and Father of 6

 With his first child (her sister's son)

Aside from being a father from his siblings, he is also a father to his nephews. Sadly but true. Oh just three siblings anymore because his youngest brother died last year due to gunshot wound. Going back, yes he is a father of three. While sending her younger sister to college,she engaged to unplanned/unexpected pregnancy. Huny was like in deep sorrow during that time when he found out that her sister is pregnant. His sister did not marry the guy and shockingly the guy was years younger to his sister so expect it to be shouldered by him. She and the scenario as well the reason why we planned only just this year of having our own baby.Not later than same year when her sister got pregnant, his younger brother's girlfriend also got pregnant. Another hit for him. His brother was only 18 and the girl was 25 years old that time. Older than the two of us. But he recuperates fast and seeing those things that happened as a blessing. That's what I love about him. He rarely speaks but took things positively.Again as the given situation it was then under his responsibility. But wait there's more ( sounds like selling hahaha) After the delivery of the first child of his brother not later than same year again the girlfriend got pregnant. ( and that did not make me smile promise! if I am going to discuss about this drama ha! it's never ending lol) He's solely responsible for two ladies and now three nephews. When it says responsible no matter how broad it is, that's it!

Now that we'll be having our own family, Huny is having a hard time saying goodbye to the one's used to be his "family" before.Not a hard time to himself but the hard time the "family". Not goodbye physically but goodbye to the responsibilities hopefully. Her sister already graduated from college and her boyfriend, the father of her child also living in their house and just recently have a work same as her sister. His brother already have a work and he thinks it's about time to call his family "HIS FAMILY". He gave her mom a fund for a small business to generate income to support for her youngest sister studies and her mom alone with her pension. He set all the things they needed  saying goodbye. But that truth that hurts is they were still not prepared and don't want to let go of Huny .

 As a first time dad to our own baby, I can say he seems to be perfect. I guess his patience and being responsible has been tested for years because of his family. Now that we're having our own it's a lot different. More special, more caring and more of a perfect he wishes it to be.  I need not to bother myself thinking how will it be for huny to be a father. Because I have seen it long time ago.

If got confuse of my title here it is:
He has three wives. Me, his sister (He stands as a husband), and his brother's girlfriend (still stands as a husband)
Father of 6
her sister, brother and youngest sister and three babies

Here's my melo-dramatic and a little bit of frustration share on today's couple's Corner

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A Good Son/Father

Huny is the eldest among in their family. Since his dad died when he's still in high school, he has no choice but to help his mom raising his 4 more siblings. At first, being in a father position is way out of his views. For him it's not a responsibility. He can help but not devotes his life. Which I beg to disagree. We had both same pattern of life. Early as 11 years old my dad passed away.  My eldest brother which is only 16 years old was also forced to the reality that we need to help each other to survive. Not thinking twice or thrice he devoted his teenage life until he reached 28 helping mom and us raising each other. No regrets, all of us finished our studies. That's what I wanted him to adapt. His the eldest and though was asked or oblige, he need to learn to help his siblings. We lived together as early as 21 years old both of us and I don't wanna be blame by his siblings or even his mom that I stole him from them even if it is also his decision. A year being together and with my persuasion he learned helping his family. When the time he decided to help his family, blessings  overflowed to him. We live wealthier than ever while helping his sister send to college and other siblings to school. He asks his mom to quit working and focused guiding his teenage younger sister and brother. He provide a better than ever living for his family. I am still the apple of his eyes but I am much happier that he thinks of his family.

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Huny as a Husband

We're not yet married but we were getting married this August. It's because before I met him and till we've been together I don't believe in marriage. Anyway everything changed now. We have been living together for 5 years. We always have our own place and provide for our own. It's like a life of a married couple but only the absence of the holy sacrament. So we considered each other husband and wife.

He's not an ideal husband if it talks about household chores. Don't get me wrong with this I love him to bits and will never stay that long with him and looking forward more years to stay together if I did not. I pertains to household chores. A lot that He Can't! His family was not that rich but he was treated differently. He was spoiled by his mom. That until today I can feel that too much favoritism in their house when it talks about him. That leads him not to learn household chores. Blame it to her mom alone.(hehe) First years together was the hard part. I had to teach him everything. I am person knows how to live alone. I was taught and trained by my mom. Not only me but all of us three, my brothers and me. Mom taught us to be independent whenever and wherever. Move on our own. Live to survive.Couple's meant to help each other. Through thick and thin. From easiest to hardest. Husband cannot help me at home. He can but I prefer not to.^_^ He will just going to mess things. hehehehe.. He is the best cause he will do everything to work and earn hard to provide for someone to help me or do the task instead. Impractical? that's what he is. Little by little living with us (mom's house) he learned a lot. Somehow he's open for  changes and learning..hehehehe.His eagerness to learn makes me love him much. 

Outside home he's the best. (bawi lol). He's a jealous hubby ever even until today that I am in my second trimester. It feels good because it makes me feel I am still the most beautiful though I gain weight and a lot of changes in my body due to pregnancy related reasons happened. Last night when were buying my milk and vitamins, somebody texted me. The number was not saved on my phone and the sender did not bother to introduce itself. It's just a simple "hi" and "how are you" message. Then he read it and ask me who was it. I said I don't know cause I really don't know who was it. He joked on me but not directly he just said that the pregnant lady has a textmate (may katextmate ang buntis). I laughed. I know it was a joke but that's how he is if he's jealous. Does it in a joke then later on keep on asking me who was it. The cashier even laughed and other customers. I supposed to feel ashamed but instead I felt proud. 

Lastly, I will never forget the day when he chose me instead of his dreams, wants,some of his important friends and his own mom. It's just a short period of time commotion but it really has a big impact and tattooed on my heart. He never failed to let me feel I am the most especial.

My share on Rainy June's Couples Corner ..

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Getting Ready On The Go

Hooray! I am back joining Couples Corner. I so missed this meme.

I can join and maintain meme somehow  now because I am back home. Mama's home. ^_^.

Huny is such a turtle to describe. lol Few close friends knew him to be that way. Whatever he's doing he's such a turtle or should I say that I am a splash and no patience in waiting. Since were really opposite this is the first in our list of arguments BEFORE. He was always late in our date. I remember there was a time he got me busted waiting for 3 hours and that was our first formal date as boyfriend/girlfriend. It really irritates me that whole day but good thing about him, that same whole day he never surrendered making up.(story four years ago)

As years passed by I learned to cope up with his turtleness. lol. I always wake him up early or texted him an hour before I arrived in a meeting place for him to fetch me up. I now make him move in advance. When we are going out or an important errand to attend to, he still gives himself an hour to prepare and mine just 30 minutes was fine. Since I am not wearing make-up or any accessories that little time is sufficient.

Here's my first time  (again)^_^ for the nth time share on cc.

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