Friday, December 31, 2010

This is It!

Last day of the year 2010. The year may be not so good to me but it taught me a lot of things and experience in life. It brought us more closer and love more each other. It made our faith to God more stronger than ever. And it somehow make us, especially me, a little bit of a good citizen a good person. Though heart breaking scenes and traumas happened this year, I am still thankful for these year for it makes both of us more stronger than ever. It adds more strength to my weakened heart and weakened faith and beleive to myself. Thanks 2010, thanks for nothing, everything and anything. 

There is no such a word as a bad year, it only depends on the perception and acceptance of that outgoing year experiences. (=

Happy New Year..Love Love Love

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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Conscious Peach

Huny, me on fuchsia theme and Jean

Huny and I attended the most awaited day of Ferry and Paul yesterday. We were aware that motif of the wedding  from the very beginning was fuchsia. Huny a super over conscious visitor wanted to themed my outfit but unfortunately we didn't find the same color with his choice of style.We ended of this gorgeous peach polo who seemed to look better when he wore it . But still Huny a super conscious all through the celebration in addition that I teased him every moment...hahahaa.. I am pretty sure he will do the same if I didn't themed the wedding motif. I am just so lucky to find fuchsia for me..hahaha
The peach visitor

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Talking About Reality and Immorality

This post seems to be a blind item..hihihihi I don't want to post this on facebook, it might reached the unreachable.

But no kidding this is true.

Whether the "it" is a girl or guy, it doesn't matter I don't want to drop gender especially name because I know the "it " will knew about this.

 I had this conversation with a good friend.I think so. We talk about everything seemed so light and opinionated in the way we look things and stuff of  real life. We met halfway on the topic of immorality and truth in life. We shared the same opinion . 

But this it friend seemed to be  a different person in front of all. Or rather the it, is absolutely presenting a different itself while having conversation with us. The inconsistency of what the it's opinion was so clear.I am wondering if the it could be a good or a bad person enough to be trusted. I somehow trusted the it because I knew the it on its bad with no pretensions and not even trying too. I wonder if I can hold on the it's words, perceptions shared and facts that I have learned from the it, believing and knowing the it in a different way. By the way I have known the it in it's  worst itself. I guess so.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

I am with the BEST

Nothing I could ask for when it comes to a perfect partner. He is amazingly perfect. Anyone might disagree but it is , for me. Nobody is perfect if they say but fortunately there is. My beloved. He's the best and I am so blessed  winning him over. I will never do anything might ruin or cause this perfect life I have with him. Everything seems so easy just being with him. All trials is just like a lame puzzle that I can easily solve in a blink. I can never be good without you. I am dependent, I am emotionally stable , I am decided and I am madly in love .

Friday, November 26, 2010

I'm With You

I'm with you through thick and thin, sickness and health, richer and poorer. Seemed to be a vow in a wedding but for me it's a promised we said to each other the very first day we found that we're in love.


Seems like a title of Avril Lavigne's song?. It's my word to him. He was afraid of his minor operation. First time on his life and as much he wanted not to undergo, I chose and insists  him to do it now. He undergone an appendectomy, it is  minor surgery but later part will become a major if not threatens. It was Wednesday last week when he complaint of stomach ache. He even asked me to soothe the pain by massaging it. As a nurse by profession I first assessed him. I know and I doubted it that it was not just a simple stomach pain. The pain started in his lower right quadrant/side of the stomach, radiating and has rebound tenderness. I refused to massage instead convince him to have a check-up. Bull's eye! I knew it that his appendix is inflamed. Right away at the emergency room the physician discuss the nature of appendicitis. The treatment and complication if not treated. He looks flushed and I know he's afraid. I utter this word " I'm with you" . He smiled and held my hand. Somehow it helps to calm him down.
In the operating room, I am nervous as if it was my first time to be outside waiting. Good thing I have a friend which is an operating room auxiliary. His also a nurse and only designated at the o.r. It was  6 months ago since we met and we are not even that close. But I know he likes me..hahaha.. I knew because he said it to me before!. I used that charm to ask a favor of going inside the o.r.  I know it's prohibited and his job might compromised of my request but I am so much thankful to him for letting me in. I am then relief and comfort seeing huny's vital signs and wound closed then.I whisper to him again though his sleeping and under anesthesia that I am with him. I don't know if he will remember or heard it but I believe he did somehow by dreams or hallucination. I owe the my friend much and a simple exchanging number already a payback to him. Glad that I have good and powerful people with me. (=
When he woke I up, I am the first he saw. I told him I am always here all through the operation. He smiled and say "I know".. See, I guess he heard me.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Saturday 9: Just What I Needed

1. Who was the last person who entered your life and was just what you needed?
   My Huny

2. What is one of your fondest childhood memories?
   When we used to had a complete family picnic at different theme parks in Manila when Papa still alive.

3. What would you like to be doing in 7 years?
    Managed my own 3 different businesses and stable blog income Yey! (=

4. Tell us about a blogging pet peeve.
    How ranking and G judgment is unfair

5. Tell us about a general pet peeve.
    Users

6. For one day, who would you like to trade places with?
    My Current Sexy Beautiful Trainee, I just want to feel how to be her   

7. Where is your least favorite place to be?
    cemetery

8. What do you like about fall?
    We don't have fall season here (:

9. If you or someone you know are chronically late, do you believe it's the result of poor planning or choosing to be late?
It depends who among them. hahaha

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Monday, November 8, 2010

I Miss The Days I Hear This Song With You

I heard this song last Friday, when our trainer plays it while we were taking our assessment exam. A longing feeling that I felt that time. I miss my drinking buddies. Buddies that caugth me when I am in the middle of darkness, broke into pieces by a first heartache. I will never forget how we love and admire, listening together with ColdPlay. I miss you so much boyfriends. Kuya, Jim, Ar-em and Samuel. This post for you guys. 

Btw, Kuya welcome to blogging though you chose to use other blogging platform. Good luck to blogging. Blog all your flaws, hurts and happiness. Never forget your secret affairs.*wink* (=




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Thursday, November 4, 2010

Thirty on 30 "Changes in My Life" Blog Contest

Mhel celebrated her 30th birthday last October 30 and sharing the blessings , she held this awesome contest for her dear fellow blogger. Worth $300+ in prizes! Not excited yet?! Well, just check out the prizes that are at stake!

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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Ultimately Opposite Theme

Since it's our golden month yesterday,  I wanted to share this song to all of you. I am sorry for my dear friends  whom not know nor understand our native language.



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Monday, October 25, 2010

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

MM:Dynamite

Happy Monday everyone. Enjoy this music from Boyce Avenue. I so love the rhythm. Hope you like it too. Start the week with a wide smile and purified heart (=..


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Sunday, October 17, 2010

Burn's Birthday Bash Contest

Gorgeous Burn of  Slogged Over Leisure  celebrated her birthday last 7th of October. Showing her gratitude to all of her friend who supported and keep supporting her in the blogosphere in a way of holding this exciting Burn's Birthday Bash Contest.  Just follow the simple steps and you’re way to win as much as $ 50 at stake . So come on and join the contest.

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Teaming Up

Guess who's teaming-up??

Between me and Huny, I was the first one who entered in a bpo as a part of the executive operations. I have been with the industry for  less than 5 years. I have been here even before I met huny. Since I am a stubborn, compulsive, young adult before, I never stayed in one company. I am more into hopping where will I be benefited the most. I know it was a poor attitude but practicality, I somehow sustain my needs. My brother only finance my tuition in nursing, and I am thankful to that help. But that help was not enough for me to make it everyday and the projects. It is too much if I ask more than what he will give so I decided to make my way to help myself . BPO really help me a lot. I remembered some time in 2004, my friends at Cavite doubtful to believe that I am in a call center. Some especially the guy friends, concluded that I am into prostitution or club work since I am always at graveyard shift.That somehow seemed to be a compliment to me..hahaha  I never get offended to that fool joke. It's because I don't even know how to put make-up on. I only knew lip gloss, since I have a cracked lips and a black eyeliner, to emphasize my red fury eyes  And being told that working in a club means I am sweet(no I am not)caring(I am careless)glamorous(I'm formerly guy lol).

Last year that I have had finished nursing, I came back to the industry as a full time employee. Huny was currently a business manager in a marketing/networking company. Our schedules didn't fit. Even my rest days although I do have a two day off. His was a constant weekend while mine is a rotating one. He kept on persuading me to stop working since he can sustain our needs. But I am a woman can't live without my own career. Frankly speaking I want money. Money to buy myself and to pamper my love ones. Money to travel. I can't be always asking even though it was him for even a little penny. Unfortunately he can't win over the career I chose. Good thing of him he never stands for what he wanted me to do. He just supported me. 2009, the company he was working that time is about to leave for other location. He was asked to still be part of it but he refused. It will be transferred somewhere in  north province. We have planned of having grand quality time for a month. I filed for a leave and his consistency persuading me gets back. I am just another woman in love ;D.He won this time and I resigned.

By that time we both don't have a job. Right in time the opportunity in a bpo knocks to him as an IT Help-desk Analyst. He was hesitant but I pushed him through. Now he was turning a year in the industry this 26th of October and his loving it. The job, the people and the culture most especially the compensation too!

Again who teamed up??

It was me..hahaha..I once decided to give up bpo. Be a nurse, a faithful to profession. But faith didn't permits. I tried my best to  be a licensed nurse but it was not for me.  This is just an option for me. But since I can see to huny that he's enjoying to with bpo, well I must follow him..Just another woman in love ;D.Now, he was consistently in the industry  in his first company while I am bummed for 8 long months at home. I missed him every night that he's away.And I can't slept beside him in the morning because I have a lot to do so not mentioning the business we just established. I need to look after it. Now were both in each other's building at night  but in the morning we can be together and without excuses at all.

If you can't beat him, join him.. (=
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Monday, October 11, 2010

MM: This Time for Africa

Hello there! My music Monday entry will be move here in my love blog.

For my first fresh entry, I have here Waka waka( This Time for  Africa) from Shakira. This was the theme for The Official 2010 FIFA World Cup. Come and enjoy..





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Saturday, October 9, 2010

S9: Hush

1. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?
   Both. At first I am a listener and eventually become a talker.. (=  But still it depends on the type of crowd.

2. Do you take compliments well?
   Yes I do. But I don't believe everything all the time.

3. Are you judgmental?
  Nope

4. Do you think more about the past, present or future?
   present and the future. I can't do anything with the past right? (=

5. What do you hate?
    --
6. Use three words to describe yourself.
    bubbly, snob and tough

7. Do you celebrate Halloween? Explain:
    No, I am not used to it because it was not practice here in our country. Just recently some were adapting of practicing it. 

8. If you were mixing up a witches brew, what would be in it?
   cuervo hahaha..

9. If you're in a room with two beds, which one do you sleep on?
   the one near to window but away from door.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

S9: Friends










1. Do you make and keep friends easily?


Yes


2. Who was your very first friend?


Mom




3. Who has been your friend the longest now?


All of them


4. Tell us about your best friend.




We are not that the same  when it comes to views and opinions but we do understand and love each other much. Though we are not always seeing each other always nothnig changes.


5. Tell us about the friend who gets on your nerves the most, and why.
Dhan, my best friennds hubby and my huny's bestfriend. He don't listen to anybody though evidences were obvious. that kind...

6. Tell us about the last time you let a friend down.


Never had a chance that I did one.


7. Tell us about the last wonderful thing a friend did for you!

Cheer me up

8. What was the last 'friend' thing you did?

kiss


9. Have your ever been jealous of a friend's S/O?


no and what's s/o?


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Nothing Unusual

It's Monday today and nothing unusual happens. As huny came home in the morning I woke up at 10 am, mom ask me to look for the rental shop and my brother trying to irritate me everyday and a flirty maid around.That's how my day works everyday. Unless it's Wednesday , I will got to church, or Huny's off. That's an unusual thing cause every off we did unusual..hihihihi Today Huny just made another core 2 duo computer in a discounted price because it's a neighborhood dear to his mom. He finished it it 3 days left him no sleep and rest since it was not his off while he was purchasing the parts of the computer.Sometimes I don't like Huny's attitude of being so kind that leave nothing for himself. And mad about others who got the guts abuses him.
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Friday, September 24, 2010

Monthsary

Familiar of monthsary? We have been together for long but we never failed to celebrate monthsary. Every 24th is our day of the month. Sometimes I did not post anymore not because its an ordinary day or an ordinary story to tell.I am just either busy or overwhelm of that every day that I forgot to do so or too much of happiness that I am then typeless lol.Posting it today does not mean then that I am not happy to be typeless, I am just a little bit surprise. It's been days that we haven't seen each other well. We did see each other but never got a quality time together. I've been so very busy accompanying, teaching and giving  instruction with his sister. Since he was an IT  help-desk analyst in a BPO company it's a forever graveyard shift that we also did not have time to sleep together at night unless it's his off. Unfortunately during his off that was also the time that I am busy the whole day and so exhausted and tired arriving late at home. Earlier he arrived from work that I am at the market to buy what will mom going to cook for lunch. I am not around that when I saw him on our shop checking computer if there will be problem. He just smiled  at me and continue checking each computer. After lunch time while we were still at the table with mom and my brother having few little conversation when he get the cake from the fridge (another usual thing hihihihi). The new thing that I am so tats was the cake with "I love you so much and I will marry you whether you like it or not".weee.. Also the thought that it was in front of my mom and my brother. Huny is a shy type guy and never it crossed my mind that he can do it. But yes he did!. Unfortunately my brother did not let me to take a picture of it, he was a voracious eater and doesn't want the message on the cake live for even a minute.
 Happy Monthsary Huny.. I love you tidbits :D

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Next Project




We already have established a business and next to our plan is setting our own abode.
We are simply making our dreams one by one to be in reality. As of the moment having a grand wedding is not yet on our list of priority. We know that it is the most awaited event for us. But we have talked about this thing.
Maybe if only Huny decides for it, for sure we have already been married before two years ago. It is my decision not to have a wedding first. Practicality strikes me. First, marrying cost much and it is an all out expenses.We can't ask back our guest to pay for attending our wedding .lol.Though how simple it is , it still cost to our savings and in marrying one of the benefit of it is our relationship is blessed by God and tied in people's eye.
But its is an all out expenses and it is impractical to marry before and afterwards we can't provide even for ourself. We don't want to be like others we knew  that after having a grand wedding then in despair paying debts. It's a one day expensive happiness. I am not an old fashion conservative type though in my opposite Huny is an ultimate one, but he's already persuaded by gorgeous me.lol




As what I am saying then,after the business  our next project is our dream abode. Along with it are the  furniture that we are going to fill in inside of it. We have been browsing the internet to check for different styles for our prospect. I can feel it, we can start this next project very soon. [cross fingers and finger toes =)] Now that we have a business, huny a stable job, and me in my future career, then were up to next project..






photos from Final Achitecture





If possible and as much as we can, we would like to be our abode looks like this one.





Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Sensitivity

From time that I have known the CC's topics, I again became the super parrot to my huny. Asking a lot to him, talking to him that much. I have to do a recap of our past current and future observations to each other in a way he will not going to notice it before I post an entry at Couple's Corner.hihihi

I therefore can share here in my entry that I am more sensitive than him. He says before I am so particular with every details that making each word if we are having an argument a big deal.That happens in our first year together, adjustment period. I am sensitive when it comes to his families needs. I am not disagreeing but I am the one who wants most for him to give help if he can to his family.Because I know what they feel cause in our family my brother provided the most. And I see to him that what was my brother did to us, he must or nearly do to his family and I don't want his siblings to get jealous to me like what I felt to my brother's girlfriends.And maybe its my fault and the reason why now we are having a problem to his family being so dependent to him. That's the only thing he describe me from being a sensitive person.

On the otherhand I am having a hard time to define Huny when it comes to sensitivity. First sensitive, He was if  I can't text him half of the day. He was accusing me of forgetting him at one time while he can't forget me in a second. Then, his sensitive to my guy friends and peers. He will let me be with them but I must reply to him if he texted me. He will not get mad but not going to smile me back if I arrived home. He's sensitive if I feel like too lazy assisting him but I am physically and emotionally very well, just a lazy day.. I think he just wanted him to be always my center of attention. {Pam pam}lol.Next insensitive, he was an ultimate to people around. As long as he said he's not doing anything wrong he doesn't mind others .When we are having little fight, he was so careless ito me.He's an extreme. No moderate channel for him if it talks about sensitivity and insensitivity . It's been years since we fought a little about this kind of topic. Maybe were used to it, or we already adopted each others perception with regards to it that's why this is no longer an issue to us. 

My share on today's Couple's Corner
Rodliz’s Nest

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When Will I See You Again


It's been a month that dilemma passed and also a month that haven't seen the group.
My review buddies. Everybody is busy doing own stuffs. Some for career, some businesses and some were families.
Butch went home to California after review. Joy's husband already arrived and they were about to leave for Japan this December that's why she's busy processing their papers. Doctor was persuaded by his sister to reconcile with his mom so he can go to Canada.
Marj is busy to her SOLAS class.Zhel on her papers to Singapore and some were bum at home. It's so hard to book a get together since everyone is so busy. I just miss the guys I have been with for four months. The laughs, the little misunderstandings, lesson of each and everyones life story, the camaraderie and the joy being with. 










I Miss You Guys.


Being Futuristic


I am fond of day dreaming. And I also shared that in my previous posts and other blogs. Those stuffs that I day dream are set to be my inspiration and goal that motivates me. I guess it is not just about daydreaming. Maybe its being futuristic to things that I want to happen in my life,in my life with huny and in my life with my family. I just set those as my goal. Planned earlier how can I achieve it.As of the moment I want to be sure that everything will be in proper pieces. Applying for a  temporary insurance is an idea brougth by Huny's officemate Kurrent. 
I have to be sure of everything because I wanted to make things that I have been planned to be in real. Kurrent brought up the idea to Huny. Kurrent already have a family and wanted to secure his self and his loved ones. At first I am quiet hesitant of it when huny shared me the thought of it because it is not included in our priorities. But upon seeing Piolo Pascual's advertisement it made me think again of agreeing with Huny.








As it says, life has no guarantee.Preparation is a must. At times, it is fine to be futuristic for oneself and for his or her family. It has the lots of advantages. And if ever things might not work as expected, at least we are prepared.

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Monday, September 13, 2010

Showing Some Interest


Huny starting to show his interest to blogging. I never ask him to be but all of a sudden he shows an interest recently. Huny have been member of different forum,sales and techy sites.When he was still active on buy and sell of gadgets and computer hardware designing. Now he just ask me what if he have a blog about computer hardware fixing and customizing. I am quite surprise of a thought but made me smile. He ask me year ago of customizing his soon to be web page. He actually fed me tools(software) that will help me and also informs me about SQL and web developing free program training somewhere near his office. He knows I like a lot tweaking html and css. Huny is not into social networking sites. As a matter of fact I made his face book account. He just need those networking site for business purposes. So I am thinking of how can he increase traffic if he is not into blog hopping. He just wanted to have a blog as his diary on what he learned and learning to. I am thinking further how I can monetize his blog for him..lol

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Father of Three

I have been so supportive with Huny when it regards to his family. I understand  not having a father beside and how to be the eldest and being responsible to your family. I know if huny had a choice he wouldn't like it to be this way. But he had no choice. There comes a time that I am almost giving up supporting him for his family but at the end of the day I chose not to because I love him much and love his loves ones too.Recently Huny expressed how he wanted to be free from obligation and responsibility to his family. I know that it's just a thought of being tired of.No  matter how I wanted to shout hurray I, still prefer said no, it's not the right thing to do. It was still his family. He was too much fed up of his siblings. Taking good care of his mom and a little sister is not a burden to Huny and I ,myself was fine with it. But taking good care of his sister with a toddler without a husband and a brother with a wife and just gave birth and a 1 year old son, I understand making him feel surrendering. The thing that put his boiling point to it's peak was the attitude of her so called sister in law. I also complaint and not like that lady. When we were living at Taguig, we (with me) encourage his younger brother to live with us. For his brother to took up vocational coarse since we live next to TESDA main. We are unaware that he had this mate known trough text somewhere in Nuevea Ecija. He was being told by huny not to have girl friend first because he need to at least took the vocational coarse first. He did not listen instead brought the lady into our house were we live and introduced to us. In my surprise he introduced it to us with the girl's traveling bag along and said that only going to stay just for a night because she came from the province. They just met that day, huny's brother said they have known each other about a month or so through text and calling each other.A night stay became days, it's going to be 2 days, the girl uses my stuffs without asking  and  never managed to clean the dishes where she ate.I did not ask her to be our nanny but at least clean the things she used and never ever touch my personal stuffs. It was as if we have a child at home that upon me and huny arriving home from work I have to clean first before we have a sit. It made me talk to her when she left her undergarments at the john.Huny and I talked about how we both don't like what was happening to our home when she arrived. Got nothing to say about his brother as a matter of fact I want him to be with us, because he can do task that I sometimes forgot or i can't attend to. I told her she can't stay any more. Huny dislike what his brother did of bringing his "girl friend" and told to send back the lady and go back to Cavite with his mom instead.  Another revelation that shocked me the girl was 2 years older than me and huny yet she did not managed to thinks if she's doing the right thing. To make it short the girl never leave his brother. His brother is only 19 years old. Continuously sleeping with huny's brother lead her to get pregnant. She has a complicated pregnancy and Huny seems to be the father of it because he provides everything  up until the first child born. That was Huny's second child to his siblings. His first was with her sister whom she sent to college and stopped due to unplanned and unwanted pregnancy. The first son of Huny.He was that good provider giving her sister a second chance to finished in college. But as of today her sister don't have a job. Poor Huny ,he still alone financing his family. When we are both working my salary is for us and his salary is for them. Now that we have this business it is strictly for our future together.The third son just born this Friday night. With her ever beloved errr sister in law. He was complaining that pregnancy is about 9 months to saved for. But even a single cent his brother and the girl doesn't have any. Another thing to be mad of , it was only 1 year old their eldest but the girl  buy new stuffs for the baby and don't want to used stuff from their first baby. That left them unaided to her delivery.And of coarse to whom they going into.. It's Huny again his third son. I know he felt so fed up but he can't do anything. His mom going crazy asking for anybody's help  for his brother so  he prefer might as good as  to him than to others. He utters what will happen if we have our own family. I am not a nice person but I told him that blessed those who help and it was him. Don't give up for your family but set limitations, so that they will learn.