I promised hubby he will be back to school supposedly this year. It was to lather and get different certificates on programs relating to information technology. It is not a literal school schedule with units and etcetera only a specific programs and trainings. Since we got married, now having baby, plans were set aside. Those kind of certifications is not a joke at its expense. It actually cost huge to our budget. It's like taking a master degree. I know he still wanted to pursue that career though he's not bringing it up recently. Hubby is the eldest son, a father almost who has all the responsibility. Too bad to think though his siblings has family now, we still need to consider them, his mom and younger sister solely his (and now us) responsibility. As a wife, I know I need to accept those unacceptable truth. We are Filipino!Culture and beliefs! Though how I wanted to support hubby to his dream, he always said we still have priorities. I don't even want to be back on my field as a nurse for I know and aware that I will not be compensated well and that fact will not going to help us. I am then setting my plans to be back on a BPO industry after giving birth. Though we have a small business that can accommodate our everyday needs, seems it was still not enough as I have mentioned hubby has an never ending responsibility. The only thing that we see possibilities if we will both work and that's the time he can study. I know how hard for it to hubby but he never shows it. He just laugh at it, sometimes includes in his corny jokes but I can feel his eagerness to have trainings done. If fortunately we will be blessed so much next year, I want to give hubby what he's dreaming for. Cross fingers with prayers. I know we can!
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Sweet Saturday 18: Fidelity
I have been passing by this meme badge that I always saw on Ate Jona's blog. First because I can't recognized it whether a meme badge or a blog badge. But now I know and already found out it's a meme! And I am excited to be part of it! I am formerly enjoying the couple's corner cause it's about you and your partner stories. I love to write about us and read about others too. Since that meme has been closed by the host Mommy Liz, I am then looking for almost the same meme here in the blogosphere. Glad Ate Jona has this one.
As my first entry, the topic is about Fidelity.
Fidelity' is the quality of being faithful or loyal
If this word will be applied to our relationship, I am a hundred percent sure husband have this. I need not to ask nor test for it anymore. Seriously in our relationship for years I was the one who had more questionable acts when it talks about trust and loyalty that was before. If hubby has cliches to be called in our marriage, those were petty stuff like mañana habit, tardiness and so on that I learned to adjust to. But no bigger and heavier cliche'. Now as we enter another stage of our life, we were both sure then that we can assure each other we now have it within. As we solely offers our life to God and promised as He was the center of our marriage. These were only words,I know, maybe some who was in broken marriage I guess also stated the same phrase. How sure I am about these? It's because of what we have. I have faith in HIM and in him. Him as He lead me to these person now my husband. And him, my hubby, who remains to be with me and love me unconditionally.
Hey sissy's come and join us share our stories here in Sweet Saturday!
Monday, October 3, 2011
Tell Me What You Want to Hear
My cousin shared this to me on facebook. There I started to like her and watched her songs on youtube. Hope you enjoy Maddi Jane as I enjoy her renditions of songs. She's also a lovely pretty girl. Enjoy watching her.
Happy Monday! Stay in love, loving and be loved.
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