Nothing Unusual

It's Monday today and nothing unusual happens. As huny came home in the morning I woke up at 10 am, mom ask me to look for the rental shop and my brother trying to irritate me everyday and a flirty maid around.That's how my day works everyday. Unless it's Wednesday , I will got to church, or Huny's off. That's an unusual thing cause every off we did unusual..hihihihi Today Huny just made another core 2 duo computer in a discounted price because it's a neighborhood dear to his mom. He finished it it 3 days left him no sleep and rest since it was not his off while he was purchasing the parts of the computer.Sometimes I don't like Huny's attitude of being so kind that leave nothing for himself. And mad about others who got the guts abuses him.

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Monthsary

Familiar of monthsary? We have been together for long but we never failed to celebrate monthsary. Every 24th is our day of the month. Sometimes I did not post anymore not because its an ordinary day or an ordinary story to tell.I am just either busy or overwhelm of that every day that I forgot to do so or too much of happiness that I am then typeless lol.Posting it today does not mean then that I am not happy to be typeless, I am just a little bit surprise. It's been days that we haven't seen each other well. We did see each other but never got a quality time together. I've been so very busy accompanying, teaching and giving  instruction with his sister. Since he was an IT  help-desk analyst in a BPO company it's a forever graveyard shift that we also did not have time to sleep together at night unless it's his off. Unfortunately during his off that was also the time that I am busy the whole day and so exhausted and tired arriving late at home. Earlier he arrived from work that I am at the market to buy what will mom going to cook for lunch. I am not around that when I saw him on our shop checking computer if there will be problem. He just smiled  at me and continue checking each computer. After lunch time while we were still at the table with mom and my brother having few little conversation when he get the cake from the fridge (another usual thing hihihihi). The new thing that I am so tats was the cake with "I love you so much and I will marry you whether you like it or not".weee.. Also the thought that it was in front of my mom and my brother. Huny is a shy type guy and never it crossed my mind that he can do it. But yes he did!. Unfortunately my brother did not let me to take a picture of it, he was a voracious eater and doesn't want the message on the cake live for even a minute.

 Happy Monthsary Huny.. I love you tidbits :D

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Next Project

We already have established a business and next to our plan is setting our own abode.
We are simply making our dreams one by one to be in reality. As of the moment having a grand wedding is not yet on our list of priority. We know that it is the most awaited event for us. But we have talked about this thing.
Maybe if only Huny decides for it, for sure we have already been married before two years ago. It is my decision not to have a wedding first. Practicality strikes me. First, marrying cost much and it is an all out expenses.We can't ask back our guest to pay for attending our wedding .lol.Though how simple it is , it still cost to our savings and in marrying one of the benefit of it is our relationship is blessed by God and tied in people's eye.
But its is an all out expenses and it is impractical to marry before and afterwards we can't provide even for ourself. We don't want to be like others we knew  that after having a grand wedding then in despair paying debts. It's a one day expensive happiness. I am not an old fashion conservative type though in my opposite Huny is an ultimate one, but he's already persuaded by gorgeous me.lol

As what I am saying then,after the business  our next project is our dream abode. Along with it are the  furniture that we are going to fill in inside of it. We have been browsing the internet to check for different styles for our prospect. I can feel it, we can start this next project very soon. [cross fingers and finger toes =)] Now that we have a business, huny a stable job, and me in my future career, then were up to next project..

photos from Final Achitecture

If possible and as much as we can, we would like to be our abode looks like this one.

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Sensitivity

From time that I have known the CC's topics, I again became the super parrot to my huny. Asking a lot to him, talking to him that much. I have to do a recap of our past current and future observations to each other in a way he will not going to notice it before I post an entry at Couple's Corner.hihihi

I therefore can share here in my entry that I am more sensitive than him. He says before I am so particular with every details that making each word if we are having an argument a big deal.That happens in our first year together, adjustment period. I am sensitive when it comes to his families needs. I am not disagreeing but I am the one who wants most for him to give help if he can to his family.Because I know what they feel cause in our family my brother provided the most. And I see to him that what was my brother did to us, he must or nearly do to his family and I don't want his siblings to get jealous to me like what I felt to my brother's girlfriends.And maybe its my fault and the reason why now we are having a problem to his family being so dependent to him. That's the only thing he describe me from being a sensitive person.

On the otherhand I am having a hard time to define Huny when it comes to sensitivity. First sensitive, He was if  I can't text him half of the day. He was accusing me of forgetting him at one time while he can't forget me in a second. Then, his sensitive to my guy friends and peers. He will let me be with them but I must reply to him if he texted me. He will not get mad but not going to smile me back if I arrived home. He's sensitive if I feel like too lazy assisting him but I am physically and emotionally very well, just a lazy day.. I think he just wanted him to be always my center of attention. {Pam pam}lol.Next insensitive, he was an ultimate to people around. As long as he said he's not doing anything wrong he doesn't mind others .When we are having little fight, he was so careless ito me.He's an extreme. No moderate channel for him if it talks about sensitivity and insensitivity . It's been years since we fought a little about this kind of topic. Maybe were used to it, or we already adopted each others perception with regards to it that's why this is no longer an issue to us. 

My share on today's Couple's Corner

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When Will I See You Again

It's been a month that dilemma passed and also a month that haven't seen the group.
My review buddies. Everybody is busy doing own stuffs. Some for career, some businesses and some were families.
Butch went home to California after review. Joy's husband already arrived and they were about to leave for Japan this December that's why she's busy processing their papers. Doctor was persuaded by his sister to reconcile with his mom so he can go to Canada.
Marj is busy to her SOLAS class.Zhel on her papers to Singapore and some were bum at home. It's so hard to book a get together since everyone is so busy. I just miss the guys I have been with for four months. The laughs, the little misunderstandings, lesson of each and everyones life story, the camaraderie and the joy being with. 

I Miss You Guys.

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