Swinging Together

Marriage life is a  not always a great journey. It's not always a lullaby like swing nor always a windy play. There were times that patience, love, trust and faith is being test. All you have to do is to hold on to each other. Each other is your strength. It's like riding in a literal swing with cedar swingsets while holding each other . To balance and keep it moving together. No one will go jump out without the other or it can't be as pleasurable as it is if there's no cooperation of each other.

In our case, I believe we are being tested by time and life challenges. We are facing troubles at times and as we go together the more we value and love each other. We appreciate our differences not contradict. We work on our issues and adjust so that we will complement. On how we cope up and see things in  different way help us to see things outside the box. We we're not perfect. We are not trying to be perfect, we just want to enjoy life and build better life for  our children. We have petty and big understandings. The good thing about our marriage is that we never clash. Hubby is always been patient enough not to fight  nor talk to me if I am mad. If we have issues we let ourselves calm down prior talking with each other. It may took days but not a week, I learned from hubby to clear my mind, calm my emotions and think of the resolution, compromise and ways to prevent a next big fight.  He never taught  me by words nor advises but instead I learned from his actions , then I confirmed to him if I am getting the message right. I may have a strong personality, I still need a husband that will guide me, feed my spiritual being and the one that I know whose always on my back no matter what. He may not be the guy that is at all times  strong enough to depend on but surely will never leave me.

Cheers to a decade of being together and counting more.

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Stronger Together

Life is not always a fairy tale. It is not always a happily ever after. There were lots of challenges along the journey. Challenges that will make you weaken, almost surrender but then you will overcome and hone you as a person that will make you stronger. What makes it a sweet success is having a person beside you who supports you. Help you with the challenges. Never letting go of your hand during the tough times. Letting you know you're not alone. The one who will walk with you, smiling and saying we made it. And that's what makes me lucky.

I have this guy who is not perfect but never leaves me behind. He's like my David Taylor who will always saves the day. We have little fights and misunderstanding but we have ways to work things out. We may not be known as the best couple, however for us we were. It is a mutual understanding that we believe, we are destined and created for each other. We can make all things together and of course with God's provision. We are not perfect but we work with our imperfections. We have one goal and traveling to one same path of our journey. Understanding each weakness, being a strength of each other and celebrating together.
A little fact about us, my husband is my major source of spiritual healing. I am his emotional strength. For the record, I am not that evil ha. It just that I am not a believer of goodness at all times. My husband is. He always have benefit of the doubt for everything and everyone. I am not like him. I don't usually trust people. I have reservations for everyone. Except for my family. Then my husband has big strong body but a soft heart. He can't be alone at one place for a long period of time. He admittedly told me those were things he can't do.  For us, if you are weakened at some point, I am here to be your strength.  We don't have much of mellow drama or sweet flicks time but we have our unique ways letting each other feel you are important and our "  i love yous" Compromise, trust, respect, loyalty and love for each other is our fuel to all the challenges and to our life journey.



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Partee Partee

I started to enjoy again the liquor session. It's Jean's fault!lol.. Kidding aside I really did. I slowed down to this vice when I met Huny. But recently there are lots of invitations of party everywhere and it's hard to say no. Argh!  I love sessions with friends. Maybe this will be the final blast. After my wedding it's all over.




I can say been there!Done that!..

 

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If Only

 We went to Fr.B's mom wake last Saturday March 20, it was also the interment day.It was located at the Manila Memorial Park Paranaque at Funeraria Paz chapels. It was one of the appointments we've been that day. Fr. Bubot, I can say is Huny's best best friend. He really tell everything at him. [so huny is a kiss and tell type lol but it's ok he's a priest he can keep secrets hehehe] Everything happens to his life[his sins], our life together[our sins^_^], his family and almost all. It was  not a happy occasion we have had attended but seems every one in Fr. Bubot's family were happy to see Felix[or maybe to all interns as well].His siblings and friends. Fr. B mentioned that Hun is part of their family and really treated as one of them. The closeness and the treatment they showed to him was really flattering to see. They wanted to Huny and I[sabit lang talaga ko dahil kasama niya ko haha] stayed for long until the last mass before the interment at three in the afternoon but we can not due to Yek's graduation at four pm. We attended the mass held by Fr. Aldrin. It was a different feeling how I am so touched with the mass and stories about Nanay[ Fr. B's mom]. I never met her and by that time I told to myself that I wish I did. If only I'd say yes to Fr's invitation to accompany Huny every time he was invited to their house. I am not easily touched by those kind of moments especially if I did not personally knew the person. But I really don't know why I feel different. I took time to read  the big tarpaulin displayed at the chapel about Nanay's wonderful journey, words of wisdom and unforgettable days with her children. If only I could enumerate what I have read and stories have been shared to me about Nanay, you can also say if only you can meet her. Good bye Nanay as what Fr. Aldrin mentioned you've had or made your life meaningful for your family and people around you. You were one of a kind inspiration. There will be a chance to meet you in a better place. My prayers are with you.

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Strangers-Neighbors- Lovers

His Pics when we were still Strangers 

 I never imagine that my life will now be with a neighbor! I posted previously I hate my community before but here it goes my one true love  belongs in the community I never loved. I never believed in destiny but I guess that's what had happened.;D. 

We met in a party held at Tagaytay. It was their school college department acquaintance party and also a friend says that it was their post celebration of their birthdays as well.( July 8 is Dhan   and huny's b-day, and Jeff, their friend was July 12: party held July 21) I was invited by my childhood friend Dhan to come along and bring my friends into that party. Since I was working that time my first business process outsourcing job, I am used to be out of the house at night. It was an invitation from Dhan (so it was him who wanted to flirt with his former girlfriend Julie now wife! you're mom should not be blaming me.. It was you Dhan!you!you!) I should've had brought a group but plans didn't pursued the guys and gals supposed to be with me went to a bar instead of our first plan in Tagaytay. 

         My Neighbors

Still we went to Dhan's party unfortunately it was only me and my soul mate Julie. It just that I felt guilty if I am not attending to his invitation because it was his first invitation to me (before he was my crush..hahaha though Makati to Tagaytay was miles away pumayag pa rin ako!hehehe) and I only went there to say thanks somehow it doesn't seem that I rejected his invitation and go home early not intended to finished the event. Voila! We arrived and he introduced us to his friends.Lots a name I can't remember now.hihihi. In that party the guy who will caught really caught me was there.. I can still remember how I look at him(flirt me! :p). He was wearing black polo shirt opened with white sando inside complementing his fair complexion and a one sided hair waxed and a red kissable lips! When we were introduced everyone was there the girls and the guys approaching and welcoming us but he is the only one remains sitting at his chair just give us a little look. Neither he smiles nor nod! Really a Snob! When Dhan noticed that I look at him Dhan called him and introduced to us. Snob attacks! He came near say "oi" and told that excused him because he will be getting something somewhere. It was only seconds he stayed in front of me and Julie. Dhan apologized in his behalf and said that the snob was kind maybe etc etc. Yeah my planned went through, we went home early; early in the morning next day!We slept over to Danica's crib where we joined continues  celebrates.  Julie and Dhan enjoy each others company and as the party goes along the Nerve Snob becomes nice and chat with me.  I though that it was just that! After we left, we also left memories and a night of acquaintance. Julie and I have a lot of things and perception in common and we decided that's it! From Tagaytay we went home here in Cavite first before going back to Makati.  

        My Neighbor(friend @_@)

We stayed weekends here and in my surprise Sunday of that week when my mom ask me to buy something in the store he bump in the path walk unconsciously.  I was so surprised and a bit ashamed! Seeing Dhan is not impossible but seeing him around was a big no! I flirted to him. It's just a simple kiss on the lips that I explained a friendship goodbye kiss before we leave the place. I wanted to melt like a candle that time. How come he was here. I assume that he only stays at Dhan's  place like Julie does. But he said no! He was also living here! Now we were neighbors!

And the rest was lovers history he did courted me naman for over 2 months. Oh by the way he said we have also been classmates in summer classes held at Cannossa. He have some pictures of us in a group performers.(I don't even remember him!) Efforts he showed going to Makati where I stayed besides they were also two.Reasons also I never stayed at our place.I don't want to be our neighbors topic!  Dhan pursue courting Julie. Now we are lovers!

Our very first picture as lovers

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Mean me!

• I am a freelancer


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  I am tough.


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  I don't easily fall for a guy.


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  I never cried. 


• I don't follow somebody's rules for me especially if he is JUST my guy. 


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  I am not going to change myself for the other or for him just to please and be liked. 


• That's me and that's how I describe myself as a lover

I am a literal boyish type. Whom before part of growing up not serious
on relationships or I can say this because I am first hurt by the first
person I almost dedicated my whole life with and it resulted me to be
that kind.In my past relationships I never care at all. Never wanted to
be an underling of the certain guy rules. Have my own rules to follow
although I am in a relationship. Careless.Break kung break(lolz). Never
listens. No patience. Guys are pigs! They play dirty tricks and games.
So why be submissive to someone you were not related by blood. Freak
right?( I know). When I am looking back for those times it just make me
smile.( Siraulo nga ata talaga ako haha)

• THAT WAS B-E-F-O-R-E !!

• I met the SNOB.

The right time he came into my life! He changed me without saying any or asking me. I have changed myself for him. I started again dreaming! Building our dreams! I am not an underling but now I learned to follow. I listen and develops a loooooong range of patience. I freaking cared a lot now, as in a huge! For myself and for my better-half! I am now submissive! Guys who knew me can testify for me..hahaha di ba Nhe?This how love changes me. Neither words nor command to persuades. It just happen because I am back to life. Love being in-love.

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You make My Day :D

Your it! You really made me happier on your thoughtful ways.. Ate Jenie never forgot me on her list. And because of that I am so thankful meeting You in this universe.

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7 hidden facts about me

1. I am an ambitous, romantic and joyful day dreamer. I   

   almost day dreamt of everything..hahaha(ambisyosa in  

   tagalog..) 

 2. I am sweet not.. I don't know how to express exactly  

     but I am a sweet type. ( trouble in expressing hahaha) 

3. I am a cry baby not..Nobody knows because I can handle  

   very much but the truth is I am indeed one. ( my bru told 

   me best actress daw ako lolz) 

4. I love to travel anywhere if I can 

5. I am a risk taker and adventurous

6. A mean person some assume first impressions. 

7. I am honestly and truthfully in love ..(cheesy) 

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•Contact said Blogs and let them know they’ve won 

•State 7 things about yourself 

I am sharing this award to Ate Rose, Lhan, Chie, AC, Nhene, 
Gello, Faith, Dhelle,DJ Tammy,

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Purple Lovers

the Purple Lovers

I have had posted on the previous topic that we will be having our date on the V day. I thought it should be right after  Jean hubby's interment . But it did not pushed through instead we celebrated our post V date. We celebrated by dining at KFC, furniture window shops(our future references hahaha), the DQ special (a date is not complete without this BIGTIME!) arcades (we just love to compete with each other when it comes to video games) and watching extreme activities at the mall such as wall climbing and  jump(ever) I don't know what was the exact name of that activity. We also went to Serendra. Enjoy hhww *holding hands while walking*(hahaha eww cheesy)  And yes! His surprises really surprised me.lol  I was planning to buy a new phone, and because of his gift, I don't need to spend my money for two phones. Since I have applied for a smart low cost plan and I am still using my globe prepaid sim, I am planning to buy as what I have also posted almost all in one gadget. And as what I 've said because of his post-V gift I have saved! And I am now in a resurrected connections mode with my pals. 

 Samsung SGH D880

 Thanks to your V-gift Huny..i luv u soo much..

Take a peak on cheesy Valentines date evidences ..

 

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Waltermart Galore..

Happy Hearts Day everyone! Glad that constantly checking on blogs I found this page where it says free Waltermart movie pass!And so much happiness that I have read that the contest was extended!yey! I've got a lot of list recently that i love to watch into the big screen. Obviously I wanted to join Ms. Pehpot contest here! 

As one of the participants rules stated that just need to complete the phrases provided below:

At WalterMart, me and my love one can_____________________________. 

At WalterMart, me and my love one can make some stroll in here. Since my Huny was never been to this mall I will be so happy to introduce him the place and add on his first lists with me..hehehe. Fortunately if I will win in this contest it is a good thing that will serves to him by WalterMart as a warm welcome into the place by watching movies in an absolutely free of charge..hahaha. It will be a great post Valentines date for the two of us. Explore and Enjoy!

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Dairy ♥ day Queen date

 

My snob loves the shades of lavender,purple,magenta etc. anything near to this one. And he somehow wishes that a heart will be in this color(wish granted here Huny for you) ;D 

My snob told me a little hint what to expect on  the hearts day but he thrilled me saying there's more and leave me in lots of question hanging around on my currently confused mind.I don't know what will be his other plan for the Hearts day. Just as he said and promised that we will be having an ice cream  to feed my cravings lolz and a big screen date.Last year our Valentine's date seemed to be perfect but ruined by the service of a particular restaurant. Knowing huny in times like these he has lots of really surprises. Really surprises as I define it because I really don't have any idea if he plan something or else.I don't have any clue from him. He is perfect in planning for surprises cause he really did surprises me. As what he told me the big screen date, I have already told him to postponed for that and save instead for our 42nd monthsary  since Basya and Popoy's movie will be in cinema on that date. We've never been a fan of local movies and actors not until we saw their last movie. Back then since we missed the Lovapalooza event last year I am not sure if Huny will still be interested to be part of it after a DQ date. I don't know what my snob will do! As for my part I have had already prepared my present for him. Since I know that in times like this you ( huny) will be reading my blog to peak out what I have had for you, well sorry I will not reveal it yet here.You need to wait  and also be surprise..lolz.

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The Snob

A way too late posting for this months theme of GT . (hahabol ako ;D) Been busy in the past weeks and quite confuse as well but the topics presented by the author of Girl's Talk is more exciting than ever and I cannot let myself just miss this out. ( There will be no more exciting as to describes the person you fell in love with and spent the rest of your life ayt?)

My one true love is an absolutely opposite of me. He's a snob one. He's a playboy but in a silent mode. He's a silent lady and gay heart killer. lolz. He is a good buddy to everyone, as in everyone that was misinterpreted by some of HIS gal friends.

He was not used to stuffs that I am used too. He ain't like party,vices and drinking sessions that much. He is not a showy sweet type of guy, but he is sweet in his own ways. He's conservative. He was so maarte when it comes to traveling. He was so conscious about his hair. He hates crowded places.He loves food and vegies so much. He was also a superb techy guy from mobile phones to computers and laptops. Actually we (his best friends and I) most describe him as a mirror. Literally whoever he was with he easily adopts that persons personality with some restrictions of coarse. But what had happened with regards to our relationship, his preferences changes exclusively to me.That was him before we met . Some of those description above change some does not. His motto pertains to me was  "if he can't beat me,he will join me". And that was actually he was doing right now and then. He never contradicts what I wanted but support. His views change and try his very best to please me. In some ways I follow orders from him but most of the time he prefer my orders then (hehehe) I'm a brat. Except for the exes issue. He was a jealous lover of all times. I can set rules almost about everything but not when it comes or brought up exes. He was not under me but he allows me to decide almost everything because he knows and understand that I am more experienced in a real life situations than him after he stays almost half his life at  SABV .



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One Piece

Before i was complaining to myself that I am lack of time watching tv. I kept myself busy on surfing and being addicted to facebook's different games and applications. After the addiction unto those I now find myself again another stuff addicted to. It was an anime movie which usually fit either for kids or young adults but I was hooked up now. I can't even felt that my day was complete if I haven't seen an episode. At first I was only reading it at manga in a comic form as a hobby during work, while waiting for a call. Not until my brother informed me that he was indeed obsessed on the same cartoon series and even downloaded the very first episode up to the current one. And what a so ridiculous coincidence, Huny was also searching for that same anime episodes. Now we are sharing same addiction to the pirate named Luffy the Straw hat and his crew.

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Refreshing Relationship

All relationships experiencing rough roads.. Even though it is said to be the perfect match, best couple, best pair etc still it would go through some rough roads of the love journey., I was about to share this 4 ways in refreshing thus nurturing relationships. Probably it works. This tips are probing ones, enough to help distinguished what was the real score about the relationship.

1. Do you have trouble finding solutions to problems together? It's not about persuading your guy/girl that you're right. It's whether the two of you can consistently find a comfortable middle ground.

2. Is your partner making most of the decisions?

Your point of view needs a full and fair hearing before you both decide on an outcome.

3. Does he or she withhold affection?

It's not just about sex—holding hands and hugging are essential. Do you share a smile or kiss at the end of the day?

4. Is your mate defensive? Are you?

Shoulder responsibility and suggest a do-over. That will make it easier to admit you were wrong.

5. Is he or she inflexible?

You don't want your spouse to be stuck in a rut.

The priorities you set 20 years ago may not apply if one of you loses a job or gets sick.

Bottom line: If you've answered affirmatively to most of these questions, it's time to get to work. Discussing your answers might be a good place to start.

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Happy Birthday Hon..

Earlier before the month of July came I've been this freak of planning whatever or anything I can do to make this perfect birthday present for my hon..And as time goes it led me to one great gift(i guess)lol..Since I am now working and earning enough either good for me, for us whatever.. I must have some bonanza gift package for my hon. I know I always surprise hon as his and ours special day comes, but this time I want it to be more unforgettable for him..I am not the type of person whom everybody loves(a sweet person), I am even numb and most known for being mean, and I don't know why I am fond of surprising my honey..(Is it because I am so much in love?)*wink... well then nobody can stop me pampering my honey.. Few people knows I love to pamper myloved ones..hahaha(though it didn't shows on me..)well then this post is for the birthday.. Grande I treat my hon to a sneak tour at city of Pines.. It was hon's first time to that particular city and again and again I am his first time for this..(i am taking down tracks of Honey's first times with me)..So happened that it was July 4th( Happy July 4th Dear Clients..hahaha) that's why we don't have a scheduled for work for that day and good thing Hon's Boss decided not to avail their office that same saturday..and it was a good chance to sneak out and celebrates my hon's special day.. I have already mentioned him about my plan and he did not taking it seriously that's why he's kinda surprise when I came at home and says "hon pack-up were leaving to celebrate your birthday".. Knowing that my guys is born a turtle(too slow) it took me six hours to wait for him to prepare, well then enough for me to have some rest after graveyard shift work..

Finally we left home at exactly 2 in the afternoon. Part of our hobby, full stomach with snacks and never letting bus vendors leaving nothing ..hahaha then our journey starts.. we've been together for so long, I 'm just wandering why we always have and so many stories to talk about..It seems that we are almost in the process of discussing both our autobiography..and all stories behind, beneath and above those..hehehe The trip was about six hours and a half and that again means non-stop chatting..food trips, and exploring discussing nature..we almost discuss everything under the bus..hah! we never get tired of chatting,mind people who read this post and not personally know my guy,he is the person whom not used of chatting.. he's a little bit lazy mouth..And such a funny thing he was the one telling stories as we travel..

At the terminal stop(love that sunset particularly this shot on tarlac..)

We arrived at the City of Pines at 11:30 in the evening and surely the driver assistant never fail to the time he had given..

We stay at a pension house at the downtown place..Gladly my friend Berly recommended the place they stayed there..

Early in the morning we started our clueless tour..hahaha we were offered for a one day tour by renting a car but we prefer having a tour just with the two of us..

We first went to the cathedral since it was sunday morning and we attended the mass..after taking some shots of the place we never forget to took shot of the Baguio viscinity and scenic spot map..(Dora!!)..

we did enjoy the place,we never felt tired the whole day, though later in the afternoon the weather was not that good at all..

Our lovers motto "nothings gonna stop us..hahaha we continued xploring the places though in a pouring rain was with us.. Unfortunately we missed to go to the Grotto, first both of us hate stairs(its really serious long stairs ayt)second it may lead us into sickness..wuahaha,(justifying laziness) seriously its getting too cold and it would harm then both our health so we decided that there will be a next time for that place..Sunday at 11:55 we are about to leave a short period of paradise.. and we spent our rest nesting at the bus chairs chilling..hahaha..Finally at 5:30 am July 06, we're at home, and enjoy the warmth of our own place..And today is another different day, it's now the date of his birthday and I am not yet done on my surprise on him..I bought him some food that we love to celebrate together(though I don't have enough sleep from work).. Actually at the eve of his birthday he surprised me by going to my work place exactly at my break sched then i treat him for some coffee and an Oreo cheese cake from SB just to compensate and enjoy for an hour we were together and initially formally celebrating his day.. Glad that I can give him more than one surprises on his special day..happy birthday honey ..Hope you will always remembered this time of your life..

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A letter for You

I am so blessed having you.. We've been staying and keeping our love alive and burning for that long, though we had so many hardships. here we are holding each others hand.. Making a choice that we know we will never regret for the rest of our life..Life is a matter of choice, I myself does not believe in destiny either..As we were analyzing things between us, we were absolutely opposite for so many ways yet we chose to be together you said you are happy and contented and I can feel it too.. For the years of being together we both feel we grow to a much more acceptable traits and behavior, we especially value both of our personal growth. We promise both that our relationship would never ever be a hindrance for us to grow but instead it would be the best component that we have to use then.. Thanks for growing little by little as a matured man. Thanks for changing though it took that slow. I am indeed happy for the changes,you said we are not changing for each other but changing for our ownselves for our own sake..Happy birthday and I am so happy that I was the one you chose to be with celebrating your special day..

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