Catching Up

My husband is so much aware of the story about "ofizserye". An office flirtationship  starring  former friends.

He accidentally read the conversation one time when I asked him to checked my phone who texted me and my messenger is always open at our computer and in the tablet. So I just shared him the "ofizserye" story.

That was a former friend who chose to try the feeling of infidelity to her husband and the usual guy who will grab any opportunity for the girl who just opened the possibilities. Funny the girl always says they we're not doing anything wrong cause there's no physical contact. Alright, talk to the hand :p ..

Former friend because I refused to call her a friend, I burst out what I felt when she finally got what she wanted.  She lied for a purpose and use me. 

Oh well this is not about them. This is about us, me and hubby, relating to what was happening to their marriage. FYI both the cast of "ofizserye" portrayed to have a happy complete family. Both were well of living and their husband and wife were successful professionals. 

Oh life is not really fair. You can't have it all.

 Anyway that's one of our hot topic during our date night. And as he said so, reason why other couple's tend to look for someone whom they can jive/ enjoy with because they were not enjoying their spouses company anymore. As he said never look for anybody's companionship aside from your husband/wife. 
Very well said Sir. 

But actually this is our pre-birthday celebration for him. Happy 32nd h0n. mwuahh. 
So I posted this to my social media account with the caption.: 


Don't ever stop dating your wife and don't ever stop flirting with your husband.. Baka sa iba pa makipagdate at makipagflirt yan 

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We are One

When you get married, the couple is called as one. Whatever your issues keep it to yourselves, within the family or better talk about it as husbands and wife. Relatives and in laws can't help neither. I can't remember if it was an advice or I read a book or heard (whatsoever) that a couple's problem will not be solve by anyone but only the party involve. Advices, reactions, suggestions sometimes make it more complicated. Better do a counseling together. Together! It should always be together!
A good friend of mine keep on posting about their couple's issue in her social media account. She was known to be the nicest and most patient gal in high school. I am opt to send her a private message worrying if how she will handle my reactions about her post. She's a dear friend indeed and my concern is pure. She's one of the people who treated me and teaching me to be a lady like. I remember the days that she was like my "mommy" at school. Glad that after our conversation at least I think, I made her felt a little better. I really hope so.

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Swinging Together

Marriage life is a  not always a great journey. It's not always a lullaby like swing nor always a windy play. There were times that patience, love, trust and faith is being test. All you have to do is to hold on to each other. Each other is your strength. It's like riding in a literal swing with cedar swingsets while holding each other . To balance and keep it moving together. No one will go jump out without the other or it can't be as pleasurable as it is if there's no cooperation of each other.

In our case, I believe we are being tested by time and life challenges. We are facing troubles at times and as we go together the more we value and love each other. We appreciate our differences not contradict. We work on our issues and adjust so that we will complement. On how we cope up and see things in  different way help us to see things outside the box. We we're not perfect. We are not trying to be perfect, we just want to enjoy life and build better life for  our children. We have petty and big understandings. The good thing about our marriage is that we never clash. Hubby is always been patient enough not to fight  nor talk to me if I am mad. If we have issues we let ourselves calm down prior talking with each other. It may took days but not a week, I learned from hubby to clear my mind, calm my emotions and think of the resolution, compromise and ways to prevent a next big fight.  He never taught  me by words nor advises but instead I learned from his actions , then I confirmed to him if I am getting the message right. I may have a strong personality, I still need a husband that will guide me, feed my spiritual being and the one that I know whose always on my back no matter what. He may not be the guy that is at all times  strong enough to depend on but surely will never leave me.

Cheers to a decade of being together and counting more.

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Stronger Together

Life is not always a fairy tale. It is not always a happily ever after. There were lots of challenges along the journey. Challenges that will make you weaken, almost surrender but then you will overcome and hone you as a person that will make you stronger. What makes it a sweet success is having a person beside you who supports you. Help you with the challenges. Never letting go of your hand during the tough times. Letting you know you're not alone. The one who will walk with you, smiling and saying we made it. And that's what makes me lucky.

I have this guy who is not perfect but never leaves me behind. He's like my David Taylor who will always saves the day. We have little fights and misunderstanding but we have ways to work things out. We may not be known as the best couple, however for us we were. It is a mutual understanding that we believe, we are destined and created for each other. We can make all things together and of course with God's provision. We are not perfect but we work with our imperfections. We have one goal and traveling to one same path of our journey. Understanding each weakness, being a strength of each other and celebrating together.
A little fact about us, my husband is my major source of spiritual healing. I am his emotional strength. For the record, I am not that evil ha. It just that I am not a believer of goodness at all times. My husband is. He always have benefit of the doubt for everything and everyone. I am not like him. I don't usually trust people. I have reservations for everyone. Except for my family. Then my husband has big strong body but a soft heart. He can't be alone at one place for a long period of time. He admittedly told me those were things he can't do.  For us, if you are weakened at some point, I am here to be your strength.  We don't have much of mellow drama or sweet flicks time but we have our unique ways letting each other feel you are important and our "  i love yous" Compromise, trust, respect, loyalty and love for each other is our fuel to all the challenges and to our life journey.



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Stronger Together

Life is not always a fairy tale. It is not always a happily ever after. There were lots of challenges along the journey. Challenges that will make you weaken, almost surrender but then you will overcome and hone you as a person that will make you stronger. What makes it a sweet success is having a person beside you who supports you. Help you with the challenges. Never letting go of your hand during the tough times. Letting you know you're not alone. The one who will walk with you, smiling and saying we made it. And that's what makes me lucky.
I have this guy who is not perfect but never leaves me behind. He's like my who will always saves the day. We have little fights and misunderstanding but we have ways to work things out. We may not be known as the best couple, however for us we were. It is a mutual understanding that we believe, we are destined and created for each other. We can make all things together and of course with God's provision. We are not perfect but we work with our imperfections. We have one goal and traveling to one same path of our journey. Understanding each weakness, being a strength of each other and celebrating together.
A little fact about us, my husband is my major source of spiritual healing. I am his emotional strength. For the record, I am not that evil ha. It just that I am not a believer of goodness at all times. My husband is. He always have benefit of the doubt for everything and everyone. I am not like him. I don't usually trust people. I have reservations for everyone. Except for my family. Then my husband has big strong body but a soft heart. He can't be alone at one place for a long period of time. He admittedly told me those were things he can't do.  For us, if you are weakened at some point, I am here to be your strength.  We don't have much of mellow drama or sweet flicks time but we have our unique ways letting each other feel you are important and our "  i love yous" Compromise, trust, respect, loyalty and love for each other is our fuel to all the challenges and to our life journey.



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